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How far do you compromise?

Types of Compromises  1.Family      Compromise 2.Friend       Compromise 3.Financial  compromise 4.Personal   compromise 5.Patriot       compromise 6.Religion     compromise  There  is a difference  between   Compromise and Compromising.The latter  is the opposite where the object is Compromising  for you for bad  to good. 1.Family Compromise  This might be joint  compromise or an individual  compromise  for or against  the Family.The Question  is How Far do you Compromise? I would say it will depend on your Love;your strength and resources. 2.Friend  Compromise This is the committment and the Trust you have to your friend,usually  accepting and accepting and understanding   the values attending to. 3.Financial  compromise  Most People belong  to this category. There are those who want you to de...

How much do your Decisions affect you?

It may sound vague.  You have made many decisions  before. I would like to help you  to classify  your  Decisions.There are three types of Decisions: 1.Personal Decisions  2.Group Decisions  3.Country Decisions  1.Personal  Decisions  include choosing your Love life,Friends and Financial Decisions. 2.Group Decisions  This  might  be at work,business  or any group effort.Sometimes you could be successful  or  not. 3.Country Decisions  The constitution of your  country may  force or guide  you to take  certain  decisions. What  will help you? 1.Planning  2.Options 3.Minimize your Options 4.What are the chances  of succeeding? 5.Is your  plan sustainable? 6.How long will it last?

How long does a Secret last?

A Secret depends on its handling. It may be personal or passed to the next person or to the next generation. When is Secret Revealed? 1.It will depend  on the prevailing  situation. It is like keeping the  boilingn water until the water vapour  vibrates  the pot and that means is able to rumble the pot. 2.The Weight of the  Secret It depends  on its gravity,danger,source which is direct  or indirect  tensions.  3.When is the Secret  Revealed? -It may be used as a blackmailing  -It may be used  for destruction or obstruction  or creating fear or personal gain. -It may be used as a form of Revenge or Avenge. -It may be used as  a "off luggage" by the Person who suffered  or enjoy  some unfair privileges. 4.BIG Questions 1.Is it  Right  to reveal  Secrets and if so to Who to Whom,Why,When and Where? 2.Is Secret Oppressive  or Liberal? 3.What are the effect  of Secret on someone's h...

The Trurh About Life

There are issues which  you  can resolved  yourself,the other  part there are issued  which you  can helped by others direct and indirect and there are issues which cannot be resolved in your life because  they are "too heavy" as you don't  have any answers or solutions as they are far relevant or irrelevant  to you. Issues which you can resolved -what you can do in your means falling into your scope of understanding. -Understand  the start-end problems. -When you are above your problem. -When you get  more co-operation. Issues which cannot be solved -Some  generational problems. -Undercover problems. -Unknown Issues -Hatred from nowhere Issues which will need an outside help. -Upgrading your job through education. -Some solutions come  from other people  like understanding the local people. -By making  relevant  contact. Instruments to help you can resolve -Throw in money you  have. Ask Elon Musk ...

Let me Revive your Talent

Don't  tell me that you don't  know your Talent or worse part you dont have a Talent.I shall take you  into olden days and present days. 1.How did you  fair  at school especially  Gr.1-Gr.5 up to university. 2.When starting work,what was the level of your loyalty,hardworking  or laziness. 3.Which Teacher  you admired most? 4.Which subjectsv you passed better? If I combine your school  performance, your teachers,subjects will be equal  to your talent.Personally,I did better in Mathematics  and English especially  English Essay. I used to debate at school. Thats why I can  write about anything. Perhaps  you are the son or daughter  of a Preacher.You can write about counseling or your Mom was a Cleaner. You can write about  the importance  of cleanliness or you used to visit a Mechanic,plumber,carpenter, builder of which  can develop  you to a certain type of career. What  I wrote  abou...

Living under Someone's Mercy

There's  something  which bothers me.I wish everybody   to be on their own Feet. Perhaps  its the way I was brought  up.The hardest  way with the hatred sprinkles.You may find it more under vuyomakaula2.blogspot.com I don't  say that People should  grow exactly  like me but it has helped  me a lot like: 1.Peservere at work and family. 2.Understanding  the different  types of People. 3.Not to runaway  from challenges. 4.Trust myself. 5.Love mself. 6.Eat the correct Food like Vegetables,less Meat and less starch. Now in this century you find People being 1.Beggars 2.Healthy  People don't  want to use their Brains. 3.High Rate  of Divorce. 4.Less Marriage ceremonies  5.The main entertainment  is liqour. 6.Children don't  enjoy schooling. Some try to cheat in their exams. 7.Novels are rarely read not to mention  buying them. 8.Rare visit to the Public Library. All what I have said makes ...

Planning

I have delegated  all my posts  under one theme. Where  does planning  start? It starts from your MIND Your Mind must have a vision. In simple terms on layman's language  a vision  is an idea which will take you to the steps you will  attain. 2024  is already expiring. There  are missions which you couldn't   fulfill because of many  reasons  which some of these  reasons include  yourself  although  you deny it sometimes. In order to make your planning to be successful you must be realistic.You have to build from what you have.You must compare from what you have achieved  and not achieved. How to go about non-achieved objectives. You have to ask yourself  how long  will it take to achieve  your goals. Before you sell your Vision to others,you must  satisfy yourself  that all or most of the loopholes  have been closed down. Although you don't  have all the answers ...