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Whether you have a family,friends, business or work,you need to pursue the new ideas. The Advantages of new ideas are -Your body will refresh. -You will gain financial growth. -Your Leadership will be respected. -More positive people will be around you. -Positive Popularity. If you don't have any ideas the  opposite of what have been said will happen. -The stress will be your friend. -You will not think effectively, grow mentally. -Your finances will decline and  be welcomed in the world of poverty. -Your Leadership will not be respected hence you will be tested with useless and real problems. -There will be those who support your downfall and be further and further trodden. -You will be painted with negative attitude. Tested and Failed  Some of the ideas were tested by you and failed. 1.You did not give your time. 2.You did not make a thoroughly research. 3.You just copied exactly from somei and did not realise in your  situation will not work. (Just like a  st...

You and me have worked very hard in the past three months.If you notice the past blogs were  "Empowering,Make you Aware, Creating self esteem  which you have gained" I have tried to help with part time jobs at https://www.coinpayu.com?r=Ncapai59  Others are found at letsnetwek.blogspot.com Some adhere to the above sites and earn money. Some chose to  struggle.It reminds me of a person who hiked and got a lift in the car and couldn't put his heavy luggage on the car floor.It  exerted the weight on his head. Back to the story. Those who clicked the sites which I have them freely they live a better life.We live once and  we die once.The more we suffer,we don't die easily but die  in pain.We must die happily. I have  exciting  blogs for April which will be available on linkedin Giithub,X and Facebook  Keep on checking after every 2 days.Perhaps you will see Sites which you did not meet before. For April 2026 Yourfami.blogspot.com Why the fam...

Did you know that when the angry person meets a cool , dignified person he/she becomes powerless.That person will modify his/her language. In that midst, what should you do? -do'nt say  anything -Move away from him/her -Take your cellphone and  record that person The behaviour of that person will exacerbate and shout more The eyes of the crowd will stick to the shouted. If you're quite,you will gain the following  1.Dignity 2.Respect 3.Sympathy 4.Protection What will the Shouter will get in turn? 1.Disrepect 2.Bad Publicity (People will take photos through  their cellphones. 3.That person will be creating more enemies for himself/herself What are the results of all this exercise? -The drama which that person exposed will haunt him/her forever -Move enemies will be created on the side of this person. -Even the families of this person will despise him/her. When you react violently towards that person -Some People will side with that person. -The lies about you will sou...

First of all,our parents have taught us their language or to put it in another way one speaks the language which is spoken by the people around you.The school, community around influences  you by bringing more vocabulary and what you can see. The Religions are trying very hard the other Life and Lifestyle.It is up to one's choice what to do and not what to do the bottomline is in the parameters of  upbringing. That's why we have a moderate,extremist,a fool, an intelligent, a wise person,a clever person,a person who compromises,a non compromising, a humble person,a "crude" person.Life is perceived as different  hurdles.All the mentioned  People have their own goals.Some are open and some are close goals. The previous life experience has a great influence  presently.The upbringing is a strong foundation even when someone leaves his/ her community. In order to survive,a certain degree of compromise will be needed.Thats why it becomes difficult or takes a long time ...

When the opportunity avails grab it, because we are all controlled by Universe which is controlled by God.How does the opportunity work? 1.It comes once in a particular generation 2.It knocks and needs a certain attention  3.Not everyone will have the EXACT opportunity  4.It is Selective 5.It  come in the form of  Finance,Job,Love or any Success. How to grab the opportunity  1.You will NEED to understand the Nature of the opportunity. 2.You have to PLAN,how much can you take it. 3.Find out whether it is the shared or not shared  opportunity. Types of Opportunities  -Evil opportunities  -Good opportunities  -Once off opportunity  -Recurring opportunities  Timing -When does it appear? -Take note of the Year and the Month -Did it appear to anyone in the family or somewhere and how many times? Let me analyse what I have said? 1.Opportunities in a particular generation  We all want to be in business. We all want to have better livin...

When you are talking  is either you are 1.Listened to 2.pretended to be listened 3.either  be interfered 4.either asked about what you are saying. People  either love what you say or not. There is a behaviour which shows that what you say is acceptable or not.The signs are 1.Facial expression  2.Head nodding  3.Direct of indirect eye contact  4.Hands movements. I'm saying all this because I don't want you to waste your time either in personal matters or at work or when you are trying to close the deal. When the 1.Facial expression is at ease,relaxed your eyes may show appreciation of what you are saying. The Facial expression may show you another version.Usually the fast nodding,eye starting, frowning might relate to opposite what you are  saying,so yours is to cut or summarize what you are saying. 2.Head nodding  The swaying of head left and right may symbolise  disagreement.The moving of the Head from up and down usually shows acceptance. 3...

It is common allover the whole world.It is the humanp behaviour.People hide under  1.Tribalism 2.Locality 3.Performance 4.Hiding under  under competency 5.Dark sides A hard worker is liked by another hard worker because he/she sees 1.Progresd 2.Opportunities 3.New perspective  4.Improvement 5.Profits A lazy manager is threatened by a hard worker because his/her 1.position might be taken. 2.dark secrets might be exposed. 3.future plans are insufficient. 4.plan might be exposed Strategies of Non hardworkers In order to defeat this scourge,we must know how does it work. 1.First an non-hardworker unite the like minded people. 2.This person looks at the loopholes like salaries,poor incentives,poor human relations and looming differences as well as the general behaviour or mood at workstation. 3.All the problems are gauged and sees where to put fire. 4.He/She looks at the impossible to make it  a perpetual problem. 5.Those who deviate from that negative group are cut out. ...

1.Your Life experience is limited. 2.You always act very late. 3.You have a certain perception about the people around. 4.You are easily deceived. 5.You always think for others. 6.You don't know the meaning of the word  Progress. 7.You don't have any immediate plan. 8.You are still in the cocoon of  your formal education. 9.You think you know everything. 10.You don't know your money is disappearing. 11.Everybody is your friend. 12.You don't travel more than  10km/month. As you are my Subscriber,I hate seeing you under the above conditions.It takes an honest friend like me to help you  wholeheartedly, unreservedly.I must lay a groundwork, otherwise it will like inserting a seed on the rock or in the grass hoping to harvest one day. Just like the land  preparation,you must remove the grass and apply a deep fork.If the soil is not deep enough,you must get the compost and artificial fertilisers. Fertilise the soil,mix it very well water it and leave for 1-2 hours th...

1.Creating your own autobiography is very important for the following reasons: -Recording a paragraph on a 192 Book will tell the survivals what was your daily life. -What were the normal daily challenges. -Recording about the individual behaviour  In the family is also important to know the kind of people who once existed in the family. -As you write,you will be recording your earnings and how did you earn. -Record also the shops, clothes which you visited because of their quality,price affordability. -Your friends,relatives the honest and dishonest ones. 2.How do you organise your information. It will depend on your busy life. Basically it can be 10-20 minutes per day. You must be able to divide your book/file into 4 categories: A. 2.1 Family  interaction   1-48 2.2 Work/Businesses     49-96 2.3 Financial spending.  97-146 2.4 Daily life.                    147-192 3.The next question is the dail...

As time went on, technology, improved  beautiful cars, aeroplane,ships improved  our lives changed.Our lives geared to individual approach or at least to certain  group. Nowadays People are not  -Happy -Giving  gifts -trusting each other  -Free  -thinking for others -Not Happy The sign of ever hungry and wanting to eat every time will be the sign of not being happy.You are overworking  your internal energy. -Not trusting each other  As the unemployment grips our lives,we turn to steal from the neighbourhood of which is not  right. -Free We are no more free to walk late in the night  because we might be attacked. Thinking for others As we have food,we don't think about the next person.Thanks to governments and NGOs and few good Samaritans.Most of us  are thinking for themselves. How do we see the Future? -The continuous disintegration of families -We spend time  in Social Media and Cellphones.We don't share our free times w...

From my experience,from my families and the family which I know their forefathers sins are paid their generations. What was stolen, illegally taken from the past is being paid painfully. Likewise  those forefathers who treated others well, their generations are benefitting a better life and prosperity. We have seen that in 1.Abnormal.Climate Change Trace the history of the people staying in those areas.You.look also at the famine. 2.Family levels  I know the families where their forefathers used to struggle for food and lived honestly within their means.The children of those generations are Professors,Top Business People,Top Artists etc. Those in the past used to kill other people. That criminality "gene" had risen.They have unstable families,criminals and they are problematic in their societies. Whether one believes in any religion, there's no religion which gives you a right to 1.Hurt,kill other people. 2.Steal the hard earned money  3.Hate other People. 4.Undermine oth...

In 2025 there were visible signs of political dramas which affected the whole world. We are in a era where the Big countries think for themselves. It was when Donald Trump called, implemented Tariffs of which he kept his election promises.No one should blame him.He complained that  USA was taken for a ride in the past and that had to stop with him. So in that way,every USA citizen  felt the economic pressure and he argued that it was temporary pressure.He then said it will be short time. What do we learn from USA. Donald Trump showed us the true colours of USA which was "hidden" by the past USA presidents.It is good that Donald Trump taught us a lesson or wake-up lesson.The battle of USA supremacy was not clear but now we know what does USA is made of.It was there and still exists and it will be there  even in future.That should be unforgettable lesson.Remember the phrase "Make America Great Again". We listened, bought their music,action films embodied their way of ...

The Hare became tired of running away from the Jackal.He made a plan.He called the Jackal for truce and made a suggestion. Hare: Let's see who can resist heat. I'm going to make fire and put you into the pot.Then,if you feel the heat shoutout  "Enough, Enough,Enough" Then I will pull out the lead so that you can get out immediately. Jackal:It's a good suggestion. (The Jackal saw this as a lucrative meal) Who will  be the first? Hare: I shall be the first. (The fire was made and the pot was set on fire.The Hare knew that the pot was not hot at the beginning.After few seconds  the Hare shouted "Enough Enough Enough  then the Jackal pulled him out. The Jackal got into the pot.The Hare dragged,pulled  and set the log on top of the lead.After few seconds the Jackal screamed "Enough Enough Enough " ,Then the Hare responded "Pull your strength " The Jackal shouted again "I'm burning here".The Hare replied again "Burn for your s...

Before you can blame anyone or other people or the environment you belong to. Ask yourself. 1.What did you do to "empower" yourself? Well, this question can be answered by seven types of people. The first  group would say "I tried and achieve some goals or most of the things I set for I achieved. The second group would say "I tried and I achieved very little,so it was a hard year." The third group would say "I looked everywhere and I could not anything to work with.Instead I waisted my money trying to improve myself and it all failed. The fourth group would say "I watched People taking chances,some succeeded and some failed.In that way I was safe". The fifth group  would say "I helped others to succeed especially my Boss to make his/her way up.I gained a lousy bonus. The sixth group would say "I did not have any means.I looked at a wrong place." The seventh group would say:"On the previous year I tried everything so that disco...

What about making someone happy? When studying the below photo,my troubles disappear.The beauty,the texture,the natural arrangements which I can think all the positive things. I have some inspirational photos accompanied by the motivational expressions which you can send to your Family,Friends and to anyone. That will help you and people around you to put must more positive energy which can translate to Peace.Peace means no Wars or Family, Community Feuds. I shall be sending more such photos and Cartoons which will make you smile, something positive to talk about. Some of my work is found from YouTube @vuyomakaula1593. Thanks you have made my day!

In all over the world,people have tried to adjust themselves through new survival methods.That survival mainly is influenced by WEALTH.Intelligemce is no more important as well as integrity. This is caused by 1.Unemployment 2.Mean salaries  3.Clever use of Technology  4.Power Accumulation  1 Unemployment  It may be caused  by poor planning by an individual or the country itself.So,the Unemployed wants to survive. So, there are those who are choosy and those who want to earn a million per day. We have  mixed types of Unemployed. 2.Mean Salaries There are People who could make with mean salary and there's a group which needs supplementary salaries. It is the question of the mindset 3.Clever use of Technology There are creators of Technology who sell their products to the rest of us Power Accumulating Power does not mushroom immediately but it grows until it is matured. WHICH are the factors create Power? 1.Environment 2.Cunning 3.Undermining other People 4.Sp...

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Betrayal does not have boundaries and limits.Its an act of escape, trying to overcome, undermining, selfishness and misunderstanding coupled of causing confusion. Origins of betrayal  -To achieve something in the expense of the other. -To cover-up the tracks. -To Revenge and Avenge -To challenge the status quo. Methods of Betrayal  -Lies -Truth -Feelings -Kindness -Cruelty A Betrayal may aim pain indirectly or directly or in anyway which deemed fit. What gives People of Betrayal? Your -Submission. -Understanding.  - honesty and dishonesty   -Love Who can be betrayed? -From the family to friends to communities to Politicians.

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