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We are in the mid year. When you look back from January 2026,how did you cope at 1.Home 2.Work ,3.Community 4.Finance. I know that this year is tough,that's why I provided sites which could  help you,not to make you rich but to keep you going.Those sites will help you to have 1.Less burden financially. 2.Positive Outlook. 3.Stress free 4. the  basics of life (staple food, vegetables,fruits and to a certain extent lessen the expensive fuel) Lets visit the above topics: 1.Home A Home is supposed  to be the place of Joy,peace, where you relax, honesty coupled with the progressive thoughts to crown it all,love all the people under your rough under  your  roof. Keep the developmental values. You must know you are not living in the Island. Some problems come from outside, including the relatives.The bottomlune you cannot satisfy  everybody. 2.Work/Business  I also believe that you must live by example. Not every person will like you,but try to draw the major...

We all want the better Life. It must consists of 1.Better wages (to meet the needs) 2.Good working conditions (manageable work) 3.Healthy body ( so that you may have enough energy) 4.Healthy mind (Positive utterances) 5.Stress free (Don't think too much about the Problems) 6.Happy life(Think about what can make you happy or visit comedynew.blogaddress.blogspot.com) 7.Love and be loved (A love language  binds all of us.It includes  warm welcoming, smiling and understanding. 8.Achievement (Personal Development) 9.Covering basic needs(Food, Clothes) What makes Life difficult? 1.Debt (accumulated Debt) 2.Sales ( No client or 1 client in 6 months) 3.Ever sick (no available medication) 4.Disturbed Mind (Not having clear  life goals) 5.Many Problems (Each day a new problem crops out and it cannot be solved easy) 6.Stress life ( You don't have any vision or many visions each day) 7.To be  hated by everybody(Everybody scolds, undermines and badmouth you) 8.Stagnant life ( No ...

This is the concept which most us  does not understand and it is poorly practiced from our family, workstation,place of Religion and in the society in general.If we knew and understood there will be no  -Violence -Oppression -Underpayment -Killings -Hatred -Wishing to grab other people's  resources,land or the property. -Greediness All the above concepts eliminated the freedoms of other people.There are couple reasons which have led us to such a life  like: 1.Inheritance of animosity. 2.Generational  Revenge. 3.Generational Avenge. 4.Moral decay 5.Slow disappearing of human values. 6.Disintegrating  of Family values  This kind of approach has been displayed in the world bodies like UN.We can see 1.Arrogance 2.Disrespecting other countries. 3.Aiming at Fearing. 4.Adopting the barbaric methods taught by their Ancestors. When these methods fail,some  sinistering methods  approached prevail like -Vague Economic  sanctions -A fairy story of...

Be at family level,work level,friendship level or sports level like  minded produces prosperity productivity and unity.At the same time there are negatives like minded which produces evil production, exploitation and selfishness. You are free to belong to any group as long as you think it will put you on the map. Our life rotates are among: 1.Work 2.Home 3.Politcs 4.Friends 5.Country. 1.Work What do you do when you find someone is stealing at work or misusing the resources and there's no other person who saw that person except you? You must know there are no 1.Human evidence 2.Material Evidence 3.Time evidence 4.Evidence  where it took place. Any absent of these  evidence may turn against you.There is a possibility  of being  a victim  or even being dismissed. The second scenario which is more serious. What  about  if someone  says that you must share the stolen products.What if  in future you are blackmailed. 2.Home A Home consists of a...

Types of Fools 1.Clever Fools 2.Stupid Fools 3.Intelligent Fools 4.Wise Fools 5.Caring Fools 6.Uncaring Fools Where do we find fools? 1.Our Families  2.Friends 3.Schools 4.Community 5.Government 6.Workplace 7.Slow Thinkers & Fast Thinkers Fools Category  1.Group 2.Individual 3.Temporary 4.Permanent How is foolishness  sustained? -Lies -Fertile environment  -Inherited  from the family or friends or community How are we affected  by Fools? -make lives stagnant -cause disruptions -lead us astray  -make lose everything  Behaviour of Fools -they don't want to be opposed -their word is final -pump negative energy  How long does foolishness last.It can be -Permanent -Temporary -popping  up at certain times  Is  Foolishness a disease -It can be a brain  malfunctioning. -It  can paralyse your thinking  -It  is the specific special attitude Is there any medication of foolishness  -Oral Tranquilizers -Understa...

Brevity is divided into various categories. The bottomline  is what you can do and achieve where others have failed. The second category is the personal  venture where one does not have any opposition. The second category  can be good  or bad. The good brevity is the one which accommodates others which I call it positive brevity. The bad brevity  is the one which b kills, destroys others under the disguise of a family or a country name. What makes one to be brave? 1.To write  the name  on History. 2.To save  a situation. 3.To prove  a certain a point. How much does Brevity carry? 1.Determination 2.To save a situation  3.Directive 4.Thinking Which factors encourage brevity? 1.Situations. 2.Associative factors. 3.The weight of the problem. Let's discuss further  1.To Write the name on History  -There are certain conditions which should be met -It is either that person wants  to be counted in history with Big, unique achievem...

I once wrote about the effect of Lies. I studied  about  the people  who live with lies. Lying is a disease which no doctor can diagnose it.There's no medication. Types of lies -Lies are aiming at achieving certain points. -Lies usually are selfish. -Lies are aiming at uniting the people of the same kind. -Lies are aiming at revenging or avenging. -Lies create disunity -Lies might be permanent or temporary  -Lies aim at bringing the people down Where does the Lies thrive? -It is usually from the negative foundation. -Baseless , exaggerated information  -Spreading wrong information  -Aims at many people  -The ideal lies is planned in such way that  it must spread as wild fire. 1.Lies  are aiming at achieving certain points A story  is created  to suit  an individual perspective. 2.Lies are usually selfish  The target of lies is to embed to an individual  3.Uniting the same kind of people  The Liar could spot the w...

Sometimes we think that we are normal. The Medical doctors detect the sickness  when it is visible  to them when at least shows abnormal signs.We don't accept that we are sick even if we are told by other people we rarely accept it. Let me start with Abnormality The signs of Abnormality -By doing things differently away from the acceptable normality. -Eating in unusually way. -Eating what is not acceptable to others. -Violent behaviour. Sickness -It  can be bodily or inwardly harm. -Losing weight very fast. -Always losing memory. -Too much stammering. -Body changes which includes immediate change of skin colour,hair loss, protruding wounds. Normality -Think and do what is acceptable. -Making rational decisions. -Differentiate what is good and Bad Abnormality Abnormality is also subdivided like -Extra Positive Creativity -Negative Creativity Eating unusually It can be taking more food like eating the whole load of bread alone or even eating one spoon per day.The eating can...

I think that all of us want to be successful this year.Perhaps let me outline the advantages of success.We can see the outcomes of success through  1.Achievement 2.Financial stability  3.Health 4.Material benefits  5.Being adored by Friends and Family  6.Affordable life Who doesn't want all what I mentioned? Even a mental disturbed person wants success. Where does success start? 1.Attitude 2.Effort 3.Persistence towards your goal 4.Work harder 5.Goal orientated 6.Perseverence Success does not happen automatically. It's an effort which initiation from your side. Perhaps lets use it as acronym and explain SUCCESS  S=Start U=Utilise C=Creativity  C=Cruising in effort  e=Endurance S=Sure/suring S=Service This acronym is got  7 letters. Success can be defined in many  ways. Success is not success  -when you hurt other people. -oppressing other people  -stealing from other people  -prevent others to succeed  -Tribalism/Racism/GB...

Be a King or a Queen in your space. You  NEED a Big Qualification (although it ADDS in your kingdom) or even a Senior Position. Basically you  NEED 1.Hardworking 2.Networking 3.Influence 4.Organizing 5.Skills 6.Unifying force 7.Visionary 8.Singing the Right node 9.Be principled Although no one can have all the qualities which I mentioned but at least in must have 60-80% or if possible all the above qualities. Let's discuss them 1.Hardworking Some workers will see your hardworking,while some will smear. 2.Networking Networking means connecting the right minded people and make things work and be well connected. 3.Influence How effective are your decisions. Are your decisions have an impact? If the decisions are well co-ordinated,planned they will have an impact. 4.Organizing Any functioning idea,it would mean that it has been well structured.Each unit speaks to the other one. 5 Skills The skills are the know-how of doing, implement and make it function. 6.Unifying  force Yo...

Where does Failure start? -Fron what you see and hear to -the brains -self defeating -be weak. -put the problem as insurmountable  How long does failure take It depends on the -strength of that person. -quick reaction. -number of attempts. Which factors encourage failure? -Fear -Negativity -I experience -Overestimating What are other factors which encourage failure? 1.Environment 2.Friends 3.Relatives 4.Type of work  How long does failure last? Failure is determined by the degree of resistance  The period of failure will be determined by  1.Persistence 2.Effort 3.Determination 4.Croping factors on the way. What are the end Results of failure -Project abandoned  -Project sabotage  -Expiring Date  Who benefits from the failure of others 1.Criminals 2.Enemies 3.Disorderly People 4.Those who want everything for themselves  How to defeat failure? 1.Focus 2.Hardworking 3.Find the  side possibilities  4.Do it  in your own pace 5.Learn from...

I was taught  1.to  Work if I want to succeed. 2.to choose successful or positive minded friends 3.that  most of the time I should think about Work or what I'm doing. 4.If I don't have Focus in my life,my future will be a nightmare. 5.Trust is earned not given. 6.Don't oppose a boss, disagree  silently or give or extend your thinking. 7.Listen and Respect. 8.Do what will sustain now and the future. 9.The completed work should speak itself. 10.It is not  one EARNS,it is what one should GIVE. The above teachings were accompanied. -Harsh implementation. -Not mistake is tolerated  -Not time to be wasted  -Strive to perfection  -Have healthy balanced food -Not church attendance,no Sunday food. Funny part: -I did  not see  as oppression. -I saw  as the way of life. -I accepted the Rules of the family. -I accepted that every family have her own rules (as much as every country is got the right to survive as long as their citizens are treate...

Some of us are known because of our 1.Lifestyle 2.Communication style 3.Clothes  which we are wearing  4.Cars which we are driving. 5.Houses which we erected 6.Sports 7.Profession 8.Media utterances  9.Religion 10.Irresponsible 11.Most violent person in this world  12.The moderate person 13.Most controversial person. 14.Genorisity person. 15.Some are influencers  Well, you may say you don't care but if you are a Businessperson  you have take heed of your actions.In business image attracts.pulls the clients.In order to succeed you must have  1.Good name 2.Good product  3.Good  understanding of your customers. 4.an appeal to a range of your clients including age groups  Let's us see each of what I have said  1.Lifestyle Although it's your money,your life you don't owe anyone because it's your choice. I'll suggest that go and live with the people of your lifestyle. 2.Communication Simple Greetings in the most communities  may ease...

What is happening was planned direct or indirect last year or previous years years even when you were not born.Lets iron the facts: -That you were born,it was not an accident. -You grew up in your country was not of your choice. -When you were baby,you were given baby food which was not of your choice. -As you grew,you had limited choice because you were not working. -After some years,you had more choices with the limited money. You entered into the next phase: The paths were parallel: •Those who could find work. •Those  who cannot  find  work. ∆Those who could find work  -There were permanent jobs which paid very well. Very  few are pulling hard. -There were permanent jobs which couldn't pay well.This group is pulling very hard. -Those who worked and they suffered from the lay-offs.That group is suffering now. ∆Those who could not find  work  This group survives by handouts from non-government organization's including churches and the Religious organi...

Whether you have a family,friends, business or work,you need to pursue the new ideas. The Advantages of new ideas are -Your body will refresh. -You will gain financial growth. -Your Leadership will be respected. -More positive people will be around you. -Positive Popularity. If you don't have any ideas the  opposite of what have been said will happen. -The stress will be your friend. -You will not think effectively, grow mentally. -Your finances will decline and  be welcomed in the world of poverty. -Your Leadership will not be respected hence you will be tested with useless and real problems. -There will be those who support your downfall and be further and further trodden. -You will be painted with negative attitude. Tested and Failed  Some of the ideas were tested by you and failed. 1.You did not give your time. 2.You did not make a thoroughly research. 3.You just copied exactly from somei and did not realise in your  situation will not work. (Just like a  st...

You and me have worked very hard in the past three months.If you notice the past blogs were  "Empowering,Make you Aware, Creating self esteem  which you have gained" I have tried to help with part time jobs at https://www.coinpayu.com?r=Ncapai59  Others are found at letsnetwek.blogspot.com Some adhere to the above sites and earn money. Some chose to  struggle.It reminds me of a person who hiked and got a lift in the car and couldn't put his heavy luggage on the car floor.It  exerted the weight on his head. Back to the story. Those who clicked the sites which I have them freely they live a better life.We live once and  we die once.The more we suffer,we don't die easily but die  in pain.We must die happily. I have  exciting  blogs for April which will be available on linkedin Giithub,X and Facebook  Keep on checking after every 2 days.Perhaps you will see Sites which you did not meet before. For April 2026 Yourfami.blogspot.com Why the fam...

Did you know that when the angry person meets a cool , dignified person he/she becomes powerless.That person will modify his/her language. In that midst, what should you do? -do'nt say  anything -Move away from him/her -Take your cellphone and  record that person The behaviour of that person will exacerbate and shout more The eyes of the crowd will stick to the shouted. If you're quite,you will gain the following  1.Dignity 2.Respect 3.Sympathy 4.Protection What will the Shouter will get in turn? 1.Disrepect 2.Bad Publicity (People will take photos through  their cellphones. 3.That person will be creating more enemies for himself/herself What are the results of all this exercise? -The drama which that person exposed will haunt him/her forever -Move enemies will be created on the side of this person. -Even the families of this person will despise him/her. When you react violently towards that person -Some People will side with that person. -The lies about you will sou...

First of all,our parents have taught us their language or to put it in another way one speaks the language which is spoken by the people around you.The school, community around influences  you by bringing more vocabulary and what you can see. The Religions are trying very hard the other Life and Lifestyle.It is up to one's choice what to do and not what to do the bottomline is in the parameters of  upbringing. That's why we have a moderate,extremist,a fool, an intelligent, a wise person,a clever person,a person who compromises,a non compromising, a humble person,a "crude" person.Life is perceived as different  hurdles.All the mentioned  People have their own goals.Some are open and some are close goals. The previous life experience has a great influence  presently.The upbringing is a strong foundation even when someone leaves his/ her community. In order to survive,a certain degree of compromise will be needed.Thats why it becomes difficult or takes a long time ...

When the opportunity avails grab it, because we are all controlled by Universe which is controlled by God.How does the opportunity work? 1.It comes once in a particular generation 2.It knocks and needs a certain attention  3.Not everyone will have the EXACT opportunity  4.It is Selective 5.It  come in the form of  Finance,Job,Love or any Success. How to grab the opportunity  1.You will NEED to understand the Nature of the opportunity. 2.You have to PLAN,how much can you take it. 3.Find out whether it is the shared or not shared  opportunity. Types of Opportunities  -Evil opportunities  -Good opportunities  -Once off opportunity  -Recurring opportunities  Timing -When does it appear? -Take note of the Year and the Month -Did it appear to anyone in the family or somewhere and how many times? Let me analyse what I have said? 1.Opportunities in a particular generation  We all want to be in business. We all want to have better livin...

When you are talking  is either you are 1.Listened to 2.pretended to be listened 3.either  be interfered 4.either asked about what you are saying. People  either love what you say or not. There is a behaviour which shows that what you say is acceptable or not.The signs are 1.Facial expression  2.Head nodding  3.Direct of indirect eye contact  4.Hands movements. I'm saying all this because I don't want you to waste your time either in personal matters or at work or when you are trying to close the deal. When the 1.Facial expression is at ease,relaxed your eyes may show appreciation of what you are saying. The Facial expression may show you another version.Usually the fast nodding,eye starting, frowning might relate to opposite what you are  saying,so yours is to cut or summarize what you are saying. 2.Head nodding  The swaying of head left and right may symbolise  disagreement.The moving of the Head from up and down usually shows acceptance. 3...