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Listening will save you in many misfortunes

Did you know that when the angry person meets a cool , dignified person he/she becomes powerless.That person will modify his/her language. In that midst, what should you do? -do'nt say  anything -Move away from him/her -Take your cellphone and  record that person The behaviour of that person will exacerbate and shout more The eyes of the crowd will stick to the shouted. If you're quite,you will gain the following  1.Dignity 2.Respect 3.Sympathy 4.Protection What will the Shouter will get in turn? 1.Disrepect 2.Bad Publicity (People will take photos through  their cellphones. 3.That person will be creating more enemies for himself/herself What are the results of all this exercise? -The drama which that person exposed will haunt him/her forever -Move enemies will be created on the side of this person. -Even the families of this person will despise him/her. When you react violently towards that person -Some People will side with that person. -The lies about you will sou...
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The Upbringing influences the Person's behaviour

First of all,our parents have taught us their language or to put it in another way one speaks the language which is spoken by the people around you.The school, community around influences  you by bringing more vocabulary and what you can see. The Religions are trying very hard the other Life and Lifestyle.It is up to one's choice what to do and not what to do the bottomline is in the parameters of  upbringing. That's why we have a moderate,extremist,a fool, an intelligent, a wise person,a clever person,a person who compromises,a non compromising, a humble person,a "crude" person.Life is perceived as different  hurdles.All the mentioned  People have their own goals.Some are open and some are close goals. The previous life experience has a great influence  presently.The upbringing is a strong foundation even when someone leaves his/ her community. In order to survive,a certain degree of compromise will be needed.Thats why it becomes difficult or takes a long time ...
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When the opportunity avails...

When the opportunity avails grab it, because we are all controlled by Universe which is controlled by God.How does the opportunity work? 1.It comes once in a particular generation 2.It knocks and needs a certain attention  3.Not everyone will have the EXACT opportunity  4.It is Selective 5.It  come in the form of  Finance,Job,Love or any Success. How to grab the opportunity  1.You will NEED to understand the Nature of the opportunity. 2.You have to PLAN,how much can you take it. 3.Find out whether it is the shared or not shared  opportunity. Types of Opportunities  -Evil opportunities  -Good opportunities  -Once off opportunity  -Recurring opportunities  Timing -When does it appear? -Take note of the Year and the Month -Did it appear to anyone in the family or somewhere and how many times? Let me analyse what I have said? 1.Opportunities in a particular generation  We all want to be in business. We all want to have better livin...
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Dynamics of Life

When you are talking  is either you are 1.Listened to 2.pretended to be listened 3.either  be interfered 4.either asked about what you are saying. People  either love what you say or not. There is a behaviour which shows that what you say is acceptable or not.The signs are 1.Facial expression  2.Head nodding  3.Direct of indirect eye contact  4.Hands movements. I'm saying all this because I don't want you to waste your time either in personal matters or at work or when you are trying to close the deal. When the 1.Facial expression is at ease,relaxed your eyes may show appreciation of what you are saying. The Facial expression may show you another version.Usually the fast nodding,eye starting, frowning might relate to opposite what you are  saying,so yours is to cut or summarize what you are saying. 2.Head nodding  The swaying of head left and right may symbolise  disagreement.The moving of the Head from up and down usually shows acceptance. 3...
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Why a Hard worker is not liked?

It is common allover the whole world.It is the humanp behaviour.People hide under  1.Tribalism 2.Locality 3.Performance 4.Hiding under  under competency 5.Dark sides A hard worker is liked by another hard worker because he/she sees 1.Progresd 2.Opportunities 3.New perspective  4.Improvement 5.Profits A lazy manager is threatened by a hard worker because his/her 1.position might be taken. 2.dark secrets might be exposed. 3.future plans are insufficient. 4.plan might be exposed Strategies of Non hardworkers In order to defeat this scourge,we must know how does it work. 1.First an non-hardworker unite the like minded people. 2.This person looks at the loopholes like salaries,poor incentives,poor human relations and looming differences as well as the general behaviour or mood at workstation. 3.All the problems are gauged and sees where to put fire. 4.He/She looks at the impossible to make it  a perpetual problem. 5.Those who deviate from that negative group are cut out. ...
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The Reasons why your Life is an uphill

1.Your Life experience is limited. 2.You always act very late. 3.You have a certain perception about the people around. 4.You are easily deceived. 5.You always think for others. 6.You don't know the meaning of the word  Progress. 7.You don't have any immediate plan. 8.You are still in the cocoon of  your formal education. 9.You think you know everything. 10.You don't know your money is disappearing. 11.Everybody is your friend. 12.You don't travel more than  10km/month. As you are my Subscriber,I hate seeing you under the above conditions.It takes an honest friend like me to help you  wholeheartedly, unreservedly.I must lay a groundwork, otherwise it will like inserting a seed on the rock or in the grass hoping to harvest one day. Just like the land  preparation,you must remove the grass and apply a deep fork.If the soil is not deep enough,you must get the compost and artificial fertilisers. Fertilise the soil,mix it very well water it and leave for 1-2 hours th...
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Importance of each day

1.Creating your own autobiography is very important for the following reasons: -Recording a paragraph on a 192 Book will tell the survivals what was your daily life. -What were the normal daily challenges. -Recording about the individual behaviour  In the family is also important to know the kind of people who once existed in the family. -As you write,you will be recording your earnings and how did you earn. -Record also the shops, clothes which you visited because of their quality,price affordability. -Your friends,relatives the honest and dishonest ones. 2.How do you organise your information. It will depend on your busy life. Basically it can be 10-20 minutes per day. You must be able to divide your book/file into 4 categories: A. 2.1 Family  interaction   1-48 2.2 Work/Businesses     49-96 2.3 Financial spending.  97-146 2.4 Daily life.                    147-192 3.The next question is the dail...
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