Behaving to Strangers

There  is a difference between behaving in strangers and behaving  with strangers.
Strangers are divided  into two categories:

1.The first Visitors or People who you meet you.You may know them but you never had  a serious conversation  with
them.

2.The People who  you don't  know  them
you have never even seen them before.
Usually it may be a business or intimacy

Your behaviour  will depend on your belief,
culture  and understanding  his/her culture
things  to say   not to say for the  first time
and the  your country or his/her  country of
origin.That will depend  on the flow of  your discussion.

What you must know
1.The first impression lasts.
2.Your  words,what you say comes second.
3.The longer  you are with the stranger 
4.Choose your point of discussions  carefully. 
Don't  speak ill about other People
5.Don't  fall into a trap.
6.If you don't   have anything to say just keep on smiling.
7.If people  appreciate  your Assets,just say Thank you or Oh,Thank you.
Don't  too much Self Praise

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