Real versus Fantasy

It is Real that we interact,live,breathe the same air with others.It is safe to have the real choices in our life.To a greater extent
our survival depends on the issues  of communication  and  what we do  to others.There are those who I call offline
People who just take advantage of us
because of our kindness and generosity 
and to them we are fools this might be our
Family members, neighbours,friends or at
Business or at Work.

Now, People take advantage of you because they
-know your past.
-percieve you as weak.
-have outweighed you ability and capability.
-have a certain experience about you.
- know your successes and failures.

That's why when change unexpectedly you
will be inviting
-confrontation.
-negative energy.
-isolation.
-heard life.

Fantasy is the "world" created by certain People.
This can be cause of
-material Possessions like Money and Assets.
-dont care attitude.
-undermining everything around them.
-thinking that they are not even clever,
intelligent but wisest in this planet.
-some have been successful.

What happen when the curtain of fantasy falls?
-The pride injects disappearance from hiding from the "act".
-Such people blame others.They don't any
mistakes from their side.
-Some end up in the mental institutions.
-Some become more violent because they
want reclaim their status back.
-If they had any benefit they will try to act on it.The last or thing they have and try to
act leverage like money left,asset, management or even telling you for example "The job/business you are doing,
you got from my initiatives,pay back"
This person can tell you privately or openly
especially when you don't tore the line.

Advice:
Any Person,Relative,Friend,Co-worker,
Business partner must not be too accustomed to you by spending 90% of your time at leisure or any association
because it will backfire.

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