Dynamics of Life
When you are talking is either you are
1.Listened to
2.pretended to be listened
3.either be interfered
4.either asked about what you are saying.
People either love what you say or not.
There is a behaviour which shows that what you say is acceptable or not.The signs are
1.Facial expression
2.Head nodding
3.Direct of indirect eye contact
4.Hands movements.
I'm saying all this because I don't want you to waste your time either in personal matters or at
work or when you are trying to close the deal.
When the
1.Facial expression is at ease,relaxed your eyes
may show appreciation of what you are saying.
The Facial expression may show you another version.Usually the fast nodding,eye starting,
frowning might relate to opposite what you are
saying,so yours is to cut or summarize what you are saying.
2.Head nodding
The swaying of head left and right may symbolise
disagreement.The moving of the Head from up and down usually shows acceptance.
3.Direct and Indirect eye contact
Some tribes believe in the movements of eyes.
Some believe it's a fairytale.
The eye contact has never been scientifically proven.
Eye contact works to others,some don't work.
4.Hands movements
Hands usually are used for emphasizing a certain
point.We all believe in our hands movements
coupled towards what we say.The anger usually is associated with the high rhythm of finger movements.At a distance you could see hate or
love through gestures.You could see whether it is tense or not.
5.Communication
1.Listened to
one person or a crowd or mixture of listenimg and crowd.The fact that it takes a minute to 5 minutes shows the degree of acceptance.When a
followup meeting is called then the attendance and the response will measure the zeal of the people.
2.Pretended to be listened
The results of actions may show whether you were listened to.It is another value of whether you are respected or not.
When people respond positively it shows your message had been carried through.
3.Either interfered
It happens sometimes when you deliver a speech or say something someone may disrupt your speech it is either he/she
-Undermines you.
-Sees you bringing boring or old or known information.
-Sees you not bringing enough information.
-Understands your background as shaky.
That's why you should are smashed immediately
from time to time.
4.either asked what you are saying
It is good that you must break the monotony speech.You must involve your audience by either asking questions or taking them along
If there are two or three questions which need followups stick to them even if it means your Agenda was not exhausted.
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