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I'm very proud to belong to a generation of 1950 to 1975.We were taught by parents, schools and communities to be extra responsible about our lives. 1.At home we were taught  1.To be clean 2.Workhard 3.Obidient 4.Manners 5.Respect (Young and Old) 2.With our friends we taught each other  1.Not Rape.Not even think about it. 2.Persevere with love proposal which may take 3 to 10 years.No love proposal under 20 years even when  you are well build physically. 3.We ought not steal.Respect your parents,family and community property. 4.Hand Gifts with no return. 5.Stay away from Police.I did know a police station until I certified my certificates. What we were taught by the community? 1.Caring the Young, Adult and the Stranger 2.Love 3.Respect all the people  4.The Community became worried when you were not working.You are either working or be at school. I was given a job in  every school holidays at brick factory.It was R1.00 per day.I used to buy clothes. At school we ...

It is ironically that  even the "toothless" people make some noise and we become  scared because we read too much of history.Perhaps we the older generation are very scared. Not with the new Generation. Fortunately,we the older generation calms the new generation.Dont take the advantage of the previous history and think you can  do what you like be a family or mass killings. Example we know People who were criminals and they were sentenced to more than 20 years and 99% of them don't want to go back to jail.The present new generation don't fear jail because they say they are unemployed. We are continuously teaching the new generation to respect, practice what the Constitution says so that our country cannot land into chaos.You must know they have more energy than us.They are in majority. No guns can silence them. Ours is to help this Generation to get jobs and earn a prosperous life as much as we were given that chance.There are experts who could help to get jobs. We h...

A Balanced Life is achievable whether you are poor  or rich.Here are the basics which are neglected  nowadays: 1.Greetings 2.Smiling. 3.Appreciation. 4.Listening. 5.Respond when there is a need. 6.Be Presentable. 7.Oh Respect 8.Be Thankful  1.Greetings. Greeting shows humanity or Ubuntu. Even animals  of the same species do greet each other. 2.Smiling A Smile means you are at peace. You are receptive,recognizing the other humanbeing  and you are free opening to others. Actually it's a super language. 3.Appreciation Small appreciation  when you see the achievements of other People brings luck to you.Lets say you appreciate a Senior Manager,you may land to a big contract or a job unaware.Appreciation open doors. 4.Listening Even if you think,you have the best opinion it is advisable to listen all what is said  and thereafter put your opinion nas opinion not as a "clever point". 5.Respond when there's a need. When somebody tells you about a certain  ...

We have two types of enemies. It is yourself and Outsider.Self enmity it's when you get to destructive act or refusing to receive a positive advice. External enemies are attracted by either reject your act or stature with the reasons or no reasons which manifests  to hostility covered or uncovered or both. Self Enmity This can be controlled by you, depending how satisfied or dissatisfied are you.The results might be negative.The results may draw enmity.For instance,your kindness might turn to enmity because the stopping of donations might turn to enmity.People fail to understand the voluntary The self acceptance would reduce Enmity.No one was with hate. External enemies  These types of enemies manifest themselves as bad spirits entered  to the Human being.So,you must establish whether these are spiritual or physical one or  are these spirits using the physical human beings to drive the victim. There are temporary enemies or permanent or inherited enemies or generatio...

I know,perhaps you have a friend/relative who you  know him/her for many years. Perhaps you have inherited him/her from your parents or from other circle of friends. Before you can ask your friend,ask yourself first 1. What is the common bond between you and your friend? 2.Which benefits do you have  from your hands? Is it mutual benefit or it is one sided? 3.Are you paying some "secret" which we don't know, which may result to capital  punishment? Now,it's a turn to ask your friend. 1.Tell me, why do you like me? Possible responses: Why do you ask me that question? It is because we grew together. We have a history together. 2.Your response: There are many reasons. Some of the reasons are 1.You understand me better. 2.We have the same interests. 3.You have guided me. 4.You shared good and bad times. Why do you ask such information after a long time? 1.It is important to put the "litmus" test  the level of your Friendship. 2.Friends may help and after sometim...

Not all the People are honorable,we see them through their actions.Some actions are perceived as honorable and honest. They  appeared as real. Usually we learn in a hard way from our spouses, political parties and even the religious leaders.And we keep on trusting them.Once discovered in Africa,then we would believe that  person is got a Spell or magic.In other continents a deep hallucination is believed that it has taken place. What are our  weaknesses? We Believe in 1.Love 2.Trust 3.Kindness 4.Positive Thinking 5.Thinking that a Person can change 6.Lucky The Above weaknesses are continuously  hacillunated  repeatedly to us and we fall for it.There is a group which is not liked because it 1.It does not Tolerate nonsense. 2.It is too much inquisitive. 3.It is very influential. 4.It has the easy access of media. 5.They are hard workers. 6.They have the ability of exposing anything. 7.They are Fearless. 8.They are Brave. 9.They know their Constitutional Rights. 10...

It can be in the family,friendship, business political relationship in all the levels.I ask myself why. Why the Abusers are taking advantage of us? 1.Are we very kind? 2.Are we so stupid? 3.Are we so poor? 4.Are we too much persevering? 5.Are our body structures give a way out of Abuse? Why are afraid of them? 1.They don't own our breath. 2.They don't own our soil. 3.They don't own our soul. 4.They don't own our happiness. 5.We don't own them anything. To sum all this. Its because we, ourselves we to blame  ourselves.We gave them too much room to play us.This is the common nature Being be Animals, Humans even plants like weeds.If you don't remove  it in time,it will "cloud"  the space of the desired plant. Don't fall into "Goodwill"  of 90 Days.The Abusers  usually give you the space to "Breath". Take them as they take you.Tit for Tat nowadays stay at that level it's the way we live. That will be better for us.

One thing you should know  We are living in Uncaring world,friends because  they benefit from you.An enemy and a friend want more from you. You are lucky when someone admire, helpful and prepared to be honest. Be as it is,you must 1.Get along what can give you a dignity,money and respect. 2.Be thankful,when your body is still strong. The Signs which hinders 1.Self Isolation  2.Isolation by the friend 3.Isolation from the family  4.Isolation from the Community  What should you do when the challenges  Crop up? 1.The more you are Productive to yourself the more People start to respect you. 2.Test the Quality of your Friendship. 2.1Just borrow $10.00 or equivalent. Money is the cement of relationship. 3.You must also have that side which we don't know