Staying in the Abusive Relationship

It can be in the family,friendship, business political relationship in all the levels.I ask myself why.
Why the Abusers are taking advantage of us?
1.Are we very kind?
2.Are we so stupid?
3.Are we so poor?
4.Are we too much persevering?
5.Are our body structures give a way out of
Abuse?

Why are afraid of them?
1.They don't own our breath.
2.They don't own our soil.
3.They don't own our soul.
4.They don't own our happiness.
5.We don't own them anything.

To sum all this.
Its because we, ourselves we to blame 
ourselves.We gave them too much room to play us.This is the common nature Being be Animals, Humans even plants like weeds.If you don't remove  it in time,it will "cloud"  the space of the desired plant.

Don't fall into "Goodwill"  of 90 Days.The Abusers  usually give you the space to
"Breath". Take them as they take you.Tit for Tat nowadays stay at that level it's the way we live.
That will be better for us.

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