Our Golden Life

We were taught not
To Steal 
To Kill
To Disrespect 
To be Selfish 
To be Alone because you will need a partner as our parents will not be able to care for us forever.
To  misrepresent our qualifications 
To mix with the criminals love  and love their money.
To be greed.

What saved us was 
-strong  family values
-healthy balanced food
-to listen when we were told that we must not "mix" with  contrervisial group.
-our opinion was tested and made us to understand the limited reasons.

Levels of Engagement 
A 4 year to 6 year was expected not to use the vulgar language because that person was  labelled  as rotten.If that Person starts at that age then it will mean  more rot  will develop in future.

7 year to 10 year was expected to take responsibility,honour, clean his/her room.

11 year to 15 year.This person is expected to take responsibility and honour the family name.Undermining the family name in the community resulted to serious punishment by the family itself.

16 year to 20 year.This one is a leader and expected to report responsible to the family.

21 year to 25 year
Some of the decisions taken are finalized
by this person.The family trusted this person.

26 year to 30 year
Usually the family trusts or distrusts this member.Depending on the size of the big,
there might be various groups which may emerge.The members of the family who keep their values is trusted and loved.
The rebellious individual or group in the family is cursed.

31 year to 35 year
This Person is regarded as matured.
The decisions which are made mighty be
Personal such as marriage,chosing a job,kind of education.Few families interfere on those decisions.

36 year to 50 year
It's either this Person earned respect or disrespect of the family.

Above 51 year
This one is the senior leader in the family.
The number of adjacent families like distant relatives or the same bloodline or the same surname respect this person.





Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Use every Second of your life

We are going to a new month which I hope, you shall have new approach in all what you will be doing. You were born to be productive.It starts from your mind.At the end of the day,count what you have achieved and not achieved. One may wonder, what have I achieved? 1.Your Movement It is healthy for your body. 2.Communication Communicate,wish good luck for other People.Laughing is a blood exercise. 3.Thinking Positive  Every Thought should have a focus with an Aim of success.It said  where there's a Will there is a Way. 4.We have two types of People. I have mentioned one. The other one is Thinking Negative.  5.Thinkinh Negative gives Negative Energy  Avenge/Revenge depends on what that particular person is thinking.It usually destroys that person and those who are  surrounding him/her. It shortens life.
Read more

Living a balanced Life.

A Balanced Life is achievable whether you are poor  or rich.Here are the basics which are neglected  nowadays: 1.Greetings 2.Smiling. 3.Appreciation. 4.Listening. 5.Respond when there is a need. 6.Be Presentable. 7.Oh Respect 8.Be Thankful  1.Greetings. Greeting shows humanity or Ubuntu. Even animals  of the same species do greet each other. 2.Smiling A Smile means you are at peace. You are receptive,recognizing the other humanbeing  and you are free opening to others. Actually it's a super language. 3.Appreciation Small appreciation  when you see the achievements of other People brings luck to you.Lets say you appreciate a Senior Manager,you may land to a big contract or a job unaware.Appreciation open doors. 4.Listening Even if you think,you have the best opinion it is advisable to listen all what is said  and thereafter put your opinion nas opinion not as a "clever point". 5.Respond when there's a need. When somebody tells you about a certain  ...
Read more

The kind of the world we live in.

It is ironically that  even the "toothless" people make some noise and we become  scared because we read too much of history.Perhaps we the older generation are very scared. Not with the new Generation. Fortunately,we the older generation calms the new generation.Dont take the advantage of the previous history and think you can  do what you like be a family or mass killings. Example we know People who were criminals and they were sentenced to more than 20 years and 99% of them don't want to go back to jail.The present new generation don't fear jail because they say they are unemployed. We are continuously teaching the new generation to respect, practice what the Constitution says so that our country cannot land into chaos.You must know they have more energy than us.They are in majority. No guns can silence them. Ours is to help this Generation to get jobs and earn a prosperous life as much as we were given that chance.There are experts who could help to get jobs. We h...
Read more