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Are you a small or Big Fish?

I mean are  you so kind in such way that everyone wants something comes from you because you are easily available.Things which makes you easily available are MONEYS,ALWAYS LOVING, ALWAYS KIND, ALWAYS  HELPING FREELY. The world is in the mentality of Demanding We used to Demanding from our Parents and the Government.We are Demanding from everybody.We don't know or pretend not  to know our boundaries. Our Governments have fed us with a mentality of GRANTS and we are told that they are FREE while  we are paying tax. So, a small group of Taxpayers are feeding those who pay less millions of tax,even few hundreds.So,we are a small fish. Some Big Fish do not simply give out money.Their characteristics are 1.Selective in paying tax. 2.Classy in their operations of tax. 3.They might have limited payments of Tax. 4.They want to benefit  maximumly towards their tax submission  5.They want to benefit daily. 6.They want to cut deals in pricing and the taxation system

Beware, don't be changed.

There are people who like to change other people.The main instrument which they use is MONEY.They will appear helping you.Unaware you will be changing and do what they want. There is no FREE money. It is either you bring that money on their terms or on the agreed terms or you will be given a "small assignment" which may accumulate and equate to the  given money. So, like it or not you have to adjust to their terms. As you become accustomed to the "luxury and good life" you will be drawn to the other better deals.Once you are IN,then it will be difficult to get out. The Bigger the Circle the Bigger are the Problems. Actually it means you have sold your life! A Big Question. Can you get out of that Circle? Yes, you can but it will take longer

People who will never change

The Verbal type We have different characters who we live with.There are certain distinct characteristics from the people who will never change.They possess the following  1.They  want that you must listen to them. 2.You have to do what they want. 3.You must be always be in their mood.If they  hate someone,you must also hate that person when they laugh you must also laugh too. 4.You must be always in their eyesight. The second group is Physical Violent type. 1.This type believes in clapping,lashing other people. 2.They want to be "saviour" 3.They are used by the other People to discipline others. 4.They want to finalize everything. The third group  This group enjoys of misinforming other People and it's their nature.They can turn lies to appear as true.They won't change their character. Their character involve  -dispute -confusion -weakness -testing any validity.

Stick to your Principles

Your belief is supported by  your principles.Some of these principles are, how we grew,friends,communities.I think you are the person,who is not easily shaken.At the same time there are those who  are easily shaken by circumstances. We are living in the era of hand to mouth. Some People can do anything to survive including lies, stubbornness, manipulation, greed and expecting more from other people.This is the nature of our lives. We are used to get things FREE, DONATED  or STEALING from anyone with a belief that others OWE us, forgetting when we planned our lives they were not present. The end becomes very ugly.  Crime is got deep roots. It's a question of SURVIVAL or PLAY or  USELESS WiSDOM.The Police, Churches and NGOs will not succeed as long as we don't address where we come from. We came from families. Ask yourself why other races don't experience what we are experiencing. I mean Crime. Of course  they do crime but to us,we have covered all forms of c...

Reap what you sow

If you sow goodwill,help people,unite them you and your generation will reap those fruits.Likewise if you are evil you or your  generation will reap those results in a horrible way. Until we understand that principle,the world will be the best place to live. Some People  1.enjoy doing evil. 2.carry of their forefathers dreams. 3.see evil as the way of living. 4."experimenting" a certain action. Who should stop the evil? 1.Family 2.Communities 3.Police 4.the UN Where does evil eminate 1.Family 2.Friends 3.Community 4.Government

Good People are exploited

Who are Good People? These are 1.Kind People. 2.peace love people. 3.realistic balanced People. 4.Progressive People. 5.Respecting People. 6.Dignified People. Although we see their nature and hardworking, unfortunately there are people who see them as 1.Fools 2.Immatured 3.low class 4.undermined Why have we the exploiters? We allow them by -adoring them. -associating ourselves with them. -allowing what they  want to do us. The number  of exploited around you. -they might be two or more. -they discuss about you privately. -each exploiter is got a certain beneficial which can be finance,food, clothes or all of them.

Why bad people always overcome us?

Bad People have better leverage because they /have 1.Money 2.Influence 3.the power of Deceiving. 4.Think Ahead. 5.know our background very well. 6.good Timing 7.knew our vulnerability. They come and pretend to -like us. -love us. -help us. They become successful because  1.we too lenient. 2.we trust them. 3.they look honorable. 4.they come at the time of need. What happens when they see that we are aware of them? They 1.disappear 2.badmouth us 3.withdraw any resource which helped you. 4.search us,how do we survive in their absence

New Approach

We are living in the funny world. Nowadays in some parts of the world a funeral is conducted differently.What they do,they hire the mourners,pastor and the choirs for funeral.Some in addition hire the Speakers who would speak 'nice' about the deceased. Money Talks. The formula is Money+Communication+ Advertisement=Expected Results. The opposite formula -Money-Connections- Advertisement=0. It reminds me of a  dignified gentleman who came to me 5 years ago  to my house and explained that the local people hate him and it was possible that they wouldn't attend his wife's funeral. He further elaborated,he dug the grave for 7 hours during  the previous night.He asked me to be present in her wife's funeral and I agreed. The following day we were accompanied by women.The grieved gentleman couldn't participate in closing the grave as the culture did not allow him.We were two gentlemen who were eligible to close the grave.The shovels were two.It took us three hours to clo...

Living your Parents/someone's Life

In any family there will be someone who by his/her loves to live like any parent. Most of these people choose  what was good or bad from the family member. Understand me well,I have said "most" If one of the parent lived with anger,he/she will also do the same.If one of the parent or both used to hate any member with any or no reason,that member will do the same. That's why most  of the families  are permanently divided hate each and they don't want even to see each other.The other side of the coin is when one or two were treated  differently from each other. That "Revenge or Avenge" stays forever. We have seen in the Talk shows. There are People who regret belonging from certain families.Some go up to an extent of changing their family names and not even allowing their children to visit their relatives. This is across the board and found anywhere in this world. Have your own Life not someone's Life.

Are you Resourceful?

I know we live in the era of scarce resources.Some of us have tried all the plans to survive.Those who tried to survive got  the minimum results. Where does it all start? 1.It starts from you. 2.How do you sell to the next person? 3.How does your product represent you to other potential customers. Which are needed  mechanisms? 1.Planning. 2.Confidence. 3.Strategy. 4.Timing. 5.Implementation. 6.Believe to the product. Easier Products to Sell Digital contents like Advices like  Marriages,Justice how to be a relevant witness. Motivational speaking and sermons Anything funny or interesting which you see around. Warnings of  new or modified Crimes Imparting skills like cooking,exercising Photos you can download and pay  Artpal.com/ncapaimakaula You can have part time job and send it to others at https://litepick.io/?ref=Ncapai59  https://www.coinpayu.com/?r=Ncapai  Click at least hourly 10 times per day for 30 to 45 days on each of the above sites and there...

Opportunist or Opportunity taker

You are either an Opportunist or Opportunity taker.Both of these People move towards the opportunity.It depends how ready they are. The Opportunists may give in his/her  life. This person does not care whether he/she fails,jailed.This person may do anything to get what he/she needs. An Opportunity taker is always positive. This person looks for, a clean,honest job. Who creates the Opportunities? 1.Yourself. 2.Time. 3.Timing 4.Power 1.Yourself The fact that you are Hustling, looking for a job,selling candies,shisanyama,car wash. 2.Time Everything have its own time. While hustling, the time of success will arrive. 3.Timing When the time avails itself,you must grab it. 4.Power Power here means how much can you exert to your dreams.

Fake People

Who are the Fake People? We are all the same but we are different because of our actions.Some actions are real some are not. What are the characteristics of Fake People? -They create false hope to themselves and to others. -They are good in convincing other people with  false promises. -They plan firstly temporarily and if they don't succeed they change and present another fake program. -Once they succeed in their program then they go to medium up to long term planning. -The emphasy in the fake world is the agreement where you are automatically  involved. What do the Fake People  benefit? -We trust them. -We live according to their principles. How do we know  a Fake Person? -That Person is unrealistic. -He/She is  belongs to dreamland -They say the same birds flow together. So, fake People connect to each other.

Moving with Times.

You either move with Times or Times will force you and take you along. Examples If you don't buy enough blankets  before winter,then you won't sleep comfortably. So, you can see that the Times have forced you to move along. Same applies with summer.You cannot wear winter clothes in summer.Your body will reject them. Coming to your Finances There is an increase of service payments  like electricity, water and not to mention food and fuel.You must have some financial sources. There are also  unavoidable expenditures like funeral, education, clothes, cosmetics, emergency fees, medical fees and more. Funeral policy It is the first policy which must be prioritised and every houseld must have. We are all going to die. Education  You don't know how will your child will do at school even if he/she will be doing well, you will need finances to fulfill his,/her ambition.If that will be contrary you will need to hire the private tutors.If all that fails you will need to create ...

Is it worth listening to a liar?

Firstly there are sensitive people from Instagram (if you respond and being hurt then it means "Phenduka Mzalwane" translated as "Change your ways Brethren-Sister" Amen and ohhhh stop it.)I'm free to write whatever what will help us all.I was freed in 1994 not to insult but to tell the truth. We have different  views about the liars. The first group would tell you ,you must not  listen anything from anyone.You know why? He/She wants  to be the only source of information which means there is a certain percentage of liars or unverified information. The second group  is the open group  which  which understands you as a person who believes everything.You don't make a difference between the Liars and the Truth. The third group will tell you either before or after that what you about to hear it's a lie.Its up to you whether you want to swim in the same stream or not. The fourth group is got references just to verify their lies.Its up to you whether you have th...

Who are you mixing with?

I remember  my late friend Piet Mazonda Mkhatshwa(may his soul rest in peace)once said to me "mix  with the best, you become the best and you mix with the bad you become the worst". The type of a company which you are with might be a good company or a bad company.Some of these companies benefit one side. Types of Social Companies. 1.Gossipers 2.Liars 3.Clothes label Group 4.Hairstyle Group 5.Short Trouser Group 6.Skinny Jean Group 7.Body Builders Group 8.Big Mamas Group/Big Daddy Group  9.Special Liqour Group 10.Loud Laughter Group Economic Spenders 1.Expensive Car Buyers 2.Big House Spenders The Questions are  1.In which group do you want to fit in? 2.Do you want to be  alone forever? 3.How many groups do you want to belong?

Winning Formula

Everyone wants to be successful. That is normal. Success depends on what you want and clear goals as well as looking the possibilities or impossibility and your strengths, weaknesses.Moreover it depends on your efforts. Now,we have two types of People. There are those who 'rob" others in order to be successful.They don't mind the period they take. The second group is the one which is honest and want everything to be fair. This group is  also patient.Both of these groups are disturbed by  mountainous problems which resurfaces out from time to town depending on the type of pressure. In reality,your success will depend on the prevailing factors like the resources, circumstances, humanbeings, natural factors   and timing. The brilliant co-ordination of these factors will result to the success.

Mastering Steps

You find a growing baby  cràwls,grabs anything which he/she sees.The next steps he/she will try to stand freely.We usually clap and congratulate the child. Whatever you are doing,be prepared to crawl first whether you are in a relationship  or in a business.You have to endure the small and big mistakes.Don't compare yourself with other People or other Businesses. The questions are, which are those small  mistakes? -What propagated, insinuated the small mistakes? -Another problem ill discipline may  result  to mistakes. So, Perseverance is the mother of all success.You can't  live from pay check to pay check.You are not a charity case

What I Like and Dislike about the 2000's

I like the 2000's  here in South Africa is that  they know GQOMU others called it GQOM and they dance,enjoy,download it and they don't know the overseas  history  music like Jimmy Smith,Louis Donaldson, Michael Jackson,Boga Lo Look Louis lo Jones  Isaac Hayes,Puff Daddy(Diddy),Joe Henderson,Oscar Petersen, Louis Armstrong,Naomi Campbell,Jazz Crusaders.Thanks Lord they are not brain washed.So, there's no external influence  countries which behave like Heaven. They are so creative  in such way  that you won't know where they get the money. When you ask them where they get the money,they will answer you with one word "Siyaphanda" meaning we are "Hustling" Some bother less of employment as long as they get the basics like  shelter, food and water.They don't like politics, don't blame anyone as much as they don't expect to blame them.If you try to blame, you will be shuttered like the heaviest thunder and you would be lucky if you are not knoc...

Nothing beats listening and acting

We don't fail because our IQs are low  or born at a wrong date or wrong parents or staying in the wrong place.Some of the problems we create them on our own which are 1.not listening carefully what we are told. 2.turning to select what  we like. 3.obstructing our thinking or 4.undermining what we are told  or 5.not following  the instructions as we required  in mathematics and physical science.  Perhaps if we could done Maths and Physics  95% of our problems could have disappeared. About  50 years,I schooled with a genius who  was Mandla Sibiya ( may his soul rest in peace).I called him a Genius and he denied and say we are all the same,the only difference I pay more attention and assimilate  what the teacher say.He said I do that from the first  to the last second then you call me a genius. Secondly a Genius who created an engine, an aeroplane or a car.

Local Discussion

Some  of my new Instagram community is not interested in so called hard stuff. As far as  I could see they want me to write about local issues like shopping, clothing,fashion,food,cooking, celebrities, popular music gqomu and American Music. The blogs which I posted have scared some Radio Celebrities not to mention the ordinary folks especially the youth and some adults.Personally,I believe  the Social Media can help us in most of our problems.Those problems are 1.Unemployment 2.Workstation 3.Creatibe Arts 4.Starting our businesses 5.Attitude 6.Political Awareness  7.Light home science like creating home electricity. Posting naked photos is not a problem to some of us,but posting 24/7/365  gives another impression.The attitude of I don't care then others do care. Well, everybody is free to do what he/she likes. Please visit also the local market,board a bus or a taxi and share with us or  visit the church service or share a joke with us. If you are brave en...

Surprising Times

We have Surprising People Surprising Technology  Surprising Politicians  We are in surprising Times. Those times are driven by People. Are the present people different from the past previous generations? What has consumed us? 1.Attitude 2.Approach 3.Greediness 4.Suppression 5.Criminal 6.Grandmother of all  is Jealousy. What we don't like 1.to be guided 2.to reason objectively and broadly 3.to work very hard  4.to help others  What we like 1.to do what we like 2.to think and act that we are very clever and others have half brains 3.to dictate in the meetings.The word Opinion is totally absent 4.to solve anything by force. Surprising Technology  We can get of part time jobs at http://cointiply.com/r/27E44 and click everything.After clicking 35 days 10 hours/day you can register at https://www.luno.com/invite/FATW7 then translate to your Bank! I did it in the past 5 years,I was never disappointed. Surprising Politicians 1.who don't care about unemployment 2.wh...

Our Golden Life

We were taught not To Steal  To Kill To Disrespect  To be Selfish  To be Alone because you will need a partner as our parents will not be able to care for us forever. To  misrepresent our qualifications  To mix with the criminals love  and love their money. To be greed. What saved us was  -strong  family values -healthy balanced food -to listen when we were told that we must not "mix" with  contrervisial group. -our opinion was tested and made us to understand the limited reasons. Levels of Engagement  A 4 year to 6 year was expected not to use the vulgar language because that person was  labelled  as rotten.If that Person starts at that age then it will mean  more rot  will develop in future. 7 year to 10 year was expected to take responsibility,honour, clean his/her room. 11 year to 15 year.This person is expected to take responsibility and honour the family name.Undermining the family name in the community resulted...

What we were taught Part 3 : Responsiblity

In 1976 the Soweto students filled the streets of  Soweto to change the Subject Allocation.Why Afrikaans was targeted  not the African Languages? 1.The South African Leaders were Afrikaners and  they had the final say 2.The Regional Leadership were unelected natives  and they could not pass the major the major laws which could change the lives  of their People. 3.The  natives were not taught the word Freedom.Actually, a person like myself did not know the meaning of the word Freedom.It was the first time to hear the word from students. 4.The secondary aim of struggle was to spread  was to conscioutize  South Africa  and the whole world. We were responsible not to burn the state  property as we knew that will be needed in future.We did not give the instructions to burn the private property those who did it were criminals who wore balaclava and properly came from the other areas. What happened.thereafter? It was 1986 the morals disappeared...

What we were taught Part 2

Love. 1.Love your fellow being. 2.Love your family. 3.Love animals and plants. 4.Love your Land. 5.Love the foreigners. 6.Love the development. 7.Dont worship Money. Let's see the role of the Church up to 2000. 1.They serve God fully. 2.God fellowship. 3.Trust the.leadership. 4.Do what the man of God says. 5.The Bible is our map and the hope. We should verify what any sermon says through the Bible. After 2000 1.Money was so much collected in some churches.That money fulfilled  the needs of the Leader or the Founder of the church. 2.There is little difference between the criminals  and the church leaders. anddem 3.Some church leaders are sinning openly because no one can tell them.Their committees are toothless and they must agree with him/her because is he/ she is carrying the message of God. 4.Some churches  demand the offerings aggressively because they will tell you that the life you are enjoying is according to their prayers. 5.Some Church Leaders went to traditional ...

What we were taught

I'm very proud to belong to a generation of 1950 to 1975.We were taught by parents, schools and communities to be extra responsible about our lives. 1.At home we were taught  1.To be clean 2.Workhard 3.Obidient 4.Manners 5.Respect (Young and Old) 2.With our friends we taught each other  1.Not Rape.Not even think about it. 2.Persevere with love proposal which may take 3 to 10 years.No love proposal under 20 years even when  you are well build physically. 3.We ought not steal.Respect your parents,family and community property. 4.Hand Gifts with no return. 5.Stay away from Police.I did know a police station until I certified my certificates. What we were taught by the community? 1.Caring the Young, Adult and the Stranger 2.Love 3.Respect all the people  4.The Community became worried when you were not working.You are either working or be at school. I was given a job in  every school holidays at brick factory.It was R1.00 per day.I used to buy clothes. At school we ...

The kind of the world we live in.

It is ironically that  even the "toothless" people make some noise and we become  scared because we read too much of history.Perhaps we the older generation are very scared. Not with the new Generation. Fortunately,we the older generation calms the new generation.Dont take the advantage of the previous history and think you can  do what you like be a family or mass killings. Example we know People who were criminals and they were sentenced to more than 20 years and 99% of them don't want to go back to jail.The present new generation don't fear jail because they say they are unemployed. We are continuously teaching the new generation to respect, practice what the Constitution says so that our country cannot land into chaos.You must know they have more energy than us.They are in majority. No guns can silence them. Ours is to help this Generation to get jobs and earn a prosperous life as much as we were given that chance.There are experts who could help to get jobs. We h...

Living a balanced Life.

A Balanced Life is achievable whether you are poor  or rich.Here are the basics which are neglected  nowadays: 1.Greetings 2.Smiling. 3.Appreciation. 4.Listening. 5.Respond when there is a need. 6.Be Presentable. 7.Oh Respect 8.Be Thankful  1.Greetings. Greeting shows humanity or Ubuntu. Even animals  of the same species do greet each other. 2.Smiling A Smile means you are at peace. You are receptive,recognizing the other humanbeing  and you are free opening to others. Actually it's a super language. 3.Appreciation Small appreciation  when you see the achievements of other People brings luck to you.Lets say you appreciate a Senior Manager,you may land to a big contract or a job unaware.Appreciation open doors. 4.Listening Even if you think,you have the best opinion it is advisable to listen all what is said  and thereafter put your opinion nas opinion not as a "clever point". 5.Respond when there's a need. When somebody tells you about a certain  ...

Enmity

We have two types of enemies. It is yourself and Outsider.Self enmity it's when you get to destructive act or refusing to receive a positive advice. External enemies are attracted by either reject your act or stature with the reasons or no reasons which manifests  to hostility covered or uncovered or both. Self Enmity This can be controlled by you, depending how satisfied or dissatisfied are you.The results might be negative.The results may draw enmity.For instance,your kindness might turn to enmity because the stopping of donations might turn to enmity.People fail to understand the voluntary The self acceptance would reduce Enmity.No one was with hate. External enemies  These types of enemies manifest themselves as bad spirits entered  to the Human being.So,you must establish whether these are spiritual or physical one or  are these spirits using the physical human beings to drive the victim. There are temporary enemies or permanent or inherited enemies or generatio...

Friendship Tried and Tested

I know,perhaps you have a friend/relative who you  know him/her for many years. Perhaps you have inherited him/her from your parents or from other circle of friends. Before you can ask your friend,ask yourself first 1. What is the common bond between you and your friend? 2.Which benefits do you have  from your hands? Is it mutual benefit or it is one sided? 3.Are you paying some "secret" which we don't know, which may result to capital  punishment? Now,it's a turn to ask your friend. 1.Tell me, why do you like me? Possible responses: Why do you ask me that question? It is because we grew together. We have a history together. 2.Your response: There are many reasons. Some of the reasons are 1.You understand me better. 2.We have the same interests. 3.You have guided me. 4.You shared good and bad times. Why do you ask such information after a long time? 1.It is important to put the "litmus" test  the level of your Friendship. 2.Friends may help and after sometim...

Honorable People

Not all the People are honorable,we see them through their actions.Some actions are perceived as honorable and honest. They  appeared as real. Usually we learn in a hard way from our spouses, political parties and even the religious leaders.And we keep on trusting them.Once discovered in Africa,then we would believe that  person is got a Spell or magic.In other continents a deep hallucination is believed that it has taken place. What are our  weaknesses? We Believe in 1.Love 2.Trust 3.Kindness 4.Positive Thinking 5.Thinking that a Person can change 6.Lucky The Above weaknesses are continuously  hacillunated  repeatedly to us and we fall for it.There is a group which is not liked because it 1.It does not Tolerate nonsense. 2.It is too much inquisitive. 3.It is very influential. 4.It has the easy access of media. 5.They are hard workers. 6.They have the ability of exposing anything. 7.They are Fearless. 8.They are Brave. 9.They know their Constitutional Rights. 10...

Staying in the Abusive Relationship

It can be in the family,friendship, business political relationship in all the levels.I ask myself why. Why the Abusers are taking advantage of us? 1.Are we very kind? 2.Are we so stupid? 3.Are we so poor? 4.Are we too much persevering? 5.Are our body structures give a way out of Abuse? Why are afraid of them? 1.They don't own our breath. 2.They don't own our soil. 3.They don't own our soul. 4.They don't own our happiness. 5.We don't own them anything. To sum all this. Its because we, ourselves we to blame  ourselves.We gave them too much room to play us.This is the common nature Being be Animals, Humans even plants like weeds.If you don't remove  it in time,it will "cloud"  the space of the desired plant. Don't fall into "Goodwill"  of 90 Days.The Abusers  usually give you the space to "Breath". Take them as they take you.Tit for Tat nowadays stay at that level it's the way we live. That will be better for us.

Moving Forward

One thing you should know  We are living in Uncaring world,friends because  they benefit from you.An enemy and a friend want more from you. You are lucky when someone admire, helpful and prepared to be honest. Be as it is,you must 1.Get along what can give you a dignity,money and respect. 2.Be thankful,when your body is still strong. The Signs which hinders 1.Self Isolation  2.Isolation by the friend 3.Isolation from the family  4.Isolation from the Community  What should you do when the challenges  Crop up? 1.The more you are Productive to yourself the more People start to respect you. 2.Test the Quality of your Friendship. 2.1Just borrow $10.00 or equivalent. Money is the cement of relationship. 3.You must also have that side which we don't know 

Use every Second of your life

We are going to a new month which I hope, you shall have new approach in all what you will be doing. You were born to be productive.It starts from your mind.At the end of the day,count what you have achieved and not achieved. One may wonder, what have I achieved? 1.Your Movement It is healthy for your body. 2.Communication Communicate,wish good luck for other People.Laughing is a blood exercise. 3.Thinking Positive  Every Thought should have a focus with an Aim of success.It said  where there's a Will there is a Way. 4.We have two types of People. I have mentioned one. The other one is Thinking Negative.  5.Thinkinh Negative gives Negative Energy  Avenge/Revenge depends on what that particular person is thinking.It usually destroys that person and those who are  surrounding him/her. It shortens life.

Mind Games

There are People who think that they are more than a Genius. -To grow in a mob,noisy,havoc does not make a genius. -To grow in a political correct place does not make someone  a genius. -To lie does not make a Genius. -To  kill other people does not make a Genius or the best Citizen. -To hate People does not make  a Genius. Those are few incidents which we counter in our lives.When we expose such people they become angry and violent.Actually, they want to expose  their Will to us. Unfortunately,we are living with People who want us to believe forcefully that we are living nice we must change our minds that poverty  does not exist,disputes, wars  don't materialize. Otherwise we shall be muzzled to the first and last degree. Right from our families, friends,leaders in the society even some Religions want us to do what they want.People of Goodwill are aging and dying.We have official  Licenced Official Criminals who even God don't want to take them immedi...

Real versus Fantasy

It is Real that we interact,live,breathe the same air with others.It is safe to have the real choices in our life.To a greater extent our survival depends on the issues  of communication  and  what we do  to others.There are those who I call offline People who just take advantage of us because of our kindness and generosity  and to them we are fools this might be our Family members, neighbours,friends or at Business or at Work. Now, People take advantage of you because they -know your past. -percieve you as weak. -have outweighed you ability and capability. -have a certain experience about you. - know your successes and failures. That's why when change unexpectedly you will be inviting -confrontation. -negative energy. -isolation. -heard life. Fantasy is the "world" created by certain People. This can be cause of -material Possessions like Money and Assets. -dont care attitude. -undermining everything around them. -thinking that they are not even clever, intelli...

Once shy, twice bitten

Do you remember that saying? Some of us don't want to learn from their past experience,doing the same thing. There are couple reasons for that 1.The situation comes  in different ways and you are not aware.An example of Gambling.When you put more money,you win less but when you put less you don't get anything. 2.You see others are winning and you think you can win or do what they do,then you get different disappointing results. 3.Don't gamble with your money or creating expensive friendship leave it. 4.Take my advice.This will make you -help you grow -money -health -time 5.Life is what we make of Lead your life don't make life to lead you.

Who drives the Economy

Money drives the Economy? Negotiations don't  drives the production. Think of all types of  capitals. The Center of any economy is the labourer which brings profits and growth. Everything start  1.Focused Labour 2.Well trained labour 3.Motivated Labour 4.Incentivized Labour 5.Openness 1.Focused Labour A Labourer must focused on his/her  responsibilities and give more energy towards their job 2.Well trained labourer The technology  needs  some adhoc trainings or improved products be finance, digital or phycal. 3.Motivated labourer A motivated Labourer gives improved product. 4.Incentivized Labourer  A Labourer who get the motivating bonuses,short holiday will do the job happily. 5.Openness Special meeting,open meeting once  month discussing the company thorny issues

Tariffs

This affects the whole world.Donald Trump initiated the  Tariffs not only for Mexico,Canada and China because he said USA was taken  for a ride. Any successful economy depends on the material and finance trading. Everybody ask why sudden change and kick the friends especially EU.Donald Trump  wants to make  USA great again and he believes he will win after firing the Federal Workers.Of course a donation can  be withdrawn  at any time but it will be noble to withdraw gradually. Which lessons can be learned? 1.Don't  fully Trust your Friend. 2.Try to be independent. 3.Help yourself. 4.A Human being is unpredictable. 5.Your Friend  might a friend of your enemy. Does it mean that you must trust any party coming from White House? They are all the same only differ  with strategy.Thanks to Donald Trump who opened our eyes. I don't blame Donald Trump or anyone.So what I see is to be creative and learn to survive on your own.The USA has babysittered t...

What will you say will map the way out

I still believe that your words may give you a success or failure.The first words or at least the first communication goes a long way. Most People don't realise that but some uses the introduction as a powerful weapon to achieve whatever they want. Why the First words are important? It is because they  -lay the foundation of what you want. -give what you expect or expected. -give the inner being of yourself. -give the other side which we did not know about yourself. Whatever you will say  shall be the source of reference.Even the first  ten seconds will be the source of reference. How are you perceived for the first time? 1.Your body  language, specifically your appearance like frowning eyes and smiling 2.The period which it takes.Especially the first 5 seconds to  a minute is very critical. 3.This will be followed by your words whether they are light or not. 4.The tone is the cement of all. Next: comedynewblogaddress.blogspot.com followed by Empiricalknow.blogs...

We are living in a strange world

What I have observed  seemingly everything is abnormal. -Children disrespect their parents,siblings not to mention the adults. -Races despise themselves not to mention the other Races. -People love money more than other fellow human beings.We murder,rape each other. -We  enjoy when one is poor not working. -We don't differ from wild animals. -We don't trust each other. The strangers and the  People we know are dangerous. Why do I mention all this? -Trust yourself. -Do what  can help you and others. -Visit  your roots that will be  your Religion  Christianity and Culture. -Have a positive mind  -Stay healthy. -Thank everyday and pray for each day and evening. -Ask God to guide  to appear in your Visions. Visit also: godiscontacting.blogspot.com Topic: God is talking Forward this post to others.

Taking your Name Higher

Whatever  you are doing is attached with your name.Whether you misbehave,create, write,action, communication leaves your name behind. The next understanding is What are you doing presently? Does it put bread on the table? Who are you working with? meaning working alone or a group or with technology? There are things which we take lightly. We respect mildly people  who help us like nurses,teachers, transport drivers moreover the mineworkers,welders, builders,road constructors,pilots,captains, police officers and service People. Of cause we attach money. Some of us think that money is everything  which is partly true but money survives for a certain period that's why  the poorest  becomes rich with one lotto and the super  rich loses everything in just a week or even a day.We have an old Xhosa song which says: " lento ilivili iyajikajika namhla ndim kusasa nguwe lumkela ukwenza ngenkohlakalo" and repeated. Translation: lento= this thing  ilivili= (it's) ...

Living with People

Our Lives are influenced by  1.Ourselves 2.People around us 3.the kind of jobs/business we are doing 4.Age 5.Years 6.Health status 1.Ourselves People read from what you are doing.The simple meeting,smile,grimmy face and the dignity you show will make people  to respond. 2.People Around us There are informal standards which are set by the People around  you,hence they can isolate you or isolate yourself automatically.So,there are consequences  from each behaviour. 3.The kind of job/business  we are doing My father was a policeman. I was raised in extreme discipline. I had to walk like him,obedient and my friends had to be approved by him. I know of a friend who was raised by a Politician.He liked to argue and "force us" to  agree with him. 4.Age It depends on the environment you were brought up.Some people like that we must do as they did when they were young and expect those  of their age should do according to their age. 5.Years Each year brings a cer...

Labour Pains

I'm not a woman but women passed from labour pain so that you and me  can be born.Some die and mostly live. We,the children know little or don't  know that. What I mean in life there are certain pains which   we must pass through.We either become successful or fail or to expect  anything.The bottom line we should expect  a certain degree of  pain. Expected Pain as years passby 1.Job 2. finance or financing 3.Getting Food 4.Accomodation Planning with Pain 1.Business 2.Families 3.Education/Schooling/Skills acquiring 4.Having mutual Helping Friends and Colleagues 5.Paying Amenities/Services like Water and electricity. What about those who receive Social Grants from  the Governments and taxing the so-called  rich People. What do  Grant Receivers think? 1.Money comes from the Government. It will never be depleted. 2.Most of them are satisfied about they get. 3.Some  think about alternative income like  selling candies or cosmeticsTh...

Life in totality

What is Life in totality? 1.Healthy 2.Happiness 3.Small room of disappointment  4.Money which can sustain you. 5.Respect 6.Respectable 7.Balanced Food 8.Visionary 1.Healthy It will be exercising,walking and working. 2.Happiness Happy news, laughing especially giggling. 3.Small room  of disappointment  Contain yourself in order  not to be stricken by heart attack. 4.Money which can sustain you. Limit or manage your debts. Live according to your budget. 5.Respect Respect other People so that they can reciprocate Respect to you.Otherwise they can disrespect you.Remember they are in majority. 6.Be Respectable Your walk,greeting and words make you to be respectable. 7.Balanced Food Balanced food makes you to be healthy. 8.Visionary Visionary means you plan and move from one step to another one.

Don't be a Spectator,participate

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Surprises

There are two basically types of surprises which make someone  happy or sometimes which may raises expectations but to lower the expectations or promises may have a negative impact especially when it was attached. The second one is embarassment. It is also a Surprise.This type of Surprise aims at Hurting  someone which most  of the time is the Revenge or trying to prove a certain point or show  some degree of  Superiority or Promising a Gloomy future. Both of these surprises are mostly shown in open audience so that they can be  Ambassadors as that will allow more and more publicity. Type of People who like surprises: 1.Relatives 2.Friends 3.Enemies 4.Accidental Communication/Incidental 5.Divine Surprise 6.Sports 7.Bar 8.Gambling 9.Blackmailer,known or  unknown  10.Workstation 11.Clothes tearing unaware in front of people.

What worries you the most?

I know there are many issues which may make you worried from your health, family, friends and moreover your finances.You cannot live without money because it supports your health  and NEEDS Your worries will be less when you PLAN. That's why the Debtors negotiate with you, when you are planning to pay.They believe  what you  say  unless you default. People  around may add to your worries. They  may give you a good or bad advices which may appear helpful and unfortunately most people take it positive and trustworthy. If you have insurmountable worries look at 1.People around you. How are they contributing into your Life? 2.Of course, unaware you may fish troubles. 3.Too much lies or trust  4.You are easily convinced. People are taking advantage of you. I have more advices depending on  your personality.You may take a special advice at nofisa1@gmail.com Subject: Advice. Detail your Personality be love,money friendship and any problem.

How Free are you?

When do you see that you are Free? When do you see that your Friend is Free? Freedom means you must  have certain boundaries meaning respecting the freedom of others. Nowadays we experience the strange behaviour where one country does not respect the Freedom of neighbours.We have seen that on the northern hemisphere.Why? It is because they have the best weapons guaranteed by themselves and moreover they want monies  of the other through doubling the taxes. They are hiding secrets. Some under "Democracy". There are many 'lies' around.Some of these lies,we have to stomach them because they have 'Bigger' guns and faster Missiles. Interestingly  enough the Northern Atmosphere is populated with Religions but that has failed to quell the Violence. Actually the word Violence does not exist to them  How Free are you from your Spouse,  Children,at work, personal views and your Business