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Types of Compromises  1.Family      Compromise 2.Friend       Compromise 3.Financial  compromise 4.Personal   compromise 5.Patriot       compromise 6.Religion     compromise  There  is a difference  between   Compromise and Compromising.The latter  is the opposite where the object is Compromising  for you for bad  to good. 1.Family Compromise  This might be joint  compromise or an individual  compromise  for or against  the Family.The Question  is How Far do you Compromise? I would say it will depend on your Love;your strength and resources. 2.Friend  Compromise This is the committment and the Trust you have to your friend,usually  accepting and accepting and understanding   the values attending to. 3.Financial  compromise  Most People belong  to this category. There are those who want you to de...

It may sound vague.  You have made many decisions  before. I would like to help you  to classify  your  Decisions.There are three types of Decisions: 1.Personal Decisions  2.Group Decisions  3.Country Decisions  1.Personal  Decisions  include choosing your Love life,Friends and Financial Decisions. 2.Group Decisions  This  might  be at work,business  or any group effort.Sometimes you could be successful  or  not. 3.Country Decisions  The constitution of your  country may  force or guide  you to take  certain  decisions. What  will help you? 1.Planning  2.Options 3.Minimize your Options 4.What are the chances  of succeeding? 5.Is your  plan sustainable? 6.How long will it last?

A Secret depends on its handling. It may be personal or passed to the next person or to the next generation. When is Secret Revealed? 1.It will depend  on the prevailing  situation. It is like keeping the  boilingn water until the water vapour  vibrates  the pot and that means is able to rumble the pot. 2.The Weight of the  Secret It depends  on its gravity,danger,source which is direct  or indirect  tensions.  3.When is the Secret  Revealed? -It may be used as a blackmailing  -It may be used  for destruction or obstruction  or creating fear or personal gain. -It may be used as a form of Revenge or Avenge. -It may be used as  a "off luggage" by the Person who suffered  or enjoy  some unfair privileges. 4.BIG Questions 1.Is it  Right  to reveal  Secrets and if so to Who to Whom,Why,When and Where? 2.Is Secret Oppressive  or Liberal? 3.What are the effect  of Secret on someone's h...

There are issues which  you  can resolved  yourself,the other  part there are issued  which you  can helped by others direct and indirect and there are issues which cannot be resolved in your life because  they are "too heavy" as you don't  have any answers or solutions as they are far relevant or irrelevant  to you. Issues which you can resolved -what you can do in your means falling into your scope of understanding. -Understand  the start-end problems. -When you are above your problem. -When you get  more co-operation. Issues which cannot be solved -Some  generational problems. -Undercover problems. -Unknown Issues -Hatred from nowhere Issues which will need an outside help. -Upgrading your job through education. -Some solutions come  from other people  like understanding the local people. -By making  relevant  contact. Instruments to help you can resolve -Throw in money you  have. Ask Elon Musk ...

Don't  tell me that you don't  know your Talent or worse part you dont have a Talent.I shall take you  into olden days and present days. 1.How did you  fair  at school especially  Gr.1-Gr.5 up to university. 2.When starting work,what was the level of your loyalty,hardworking  or laziness. 3.Which Teacher  you admired most? 4.Which subjectsv you passed better? If I combine your school  performance, your teachers,subjects will be equal  to your talent.Personally,I did better in Mathematics  and English especially  English Essay. I used to debate at school. Thats why I can  write about anything. Perhaps  you are the son or daughter  of a Preacher.You can write about counseling or your Mom was a Cleaner. You can write about  the importance  of cleanliness or you used to visit a Mechanic,plumber,carpenter, builder of which  can develop  you to a certain type of career. What  I wrote  abou...

There's  something  which bothers me.I wish everybody   to be on their own Feet. Perhaps  its the way I was brought  up.The hardest  way with the hatred sprinkles.You may find it more under vuyomakaula2.blogspot.com I don't  say that People should  grow exactly  like me but it has helped  me a lot like: 1.Peservere at work and family. 2.Understanding  the different  types of People. 3.Not to runaway  from challenges. 4.Trust myself. 5.Love mself. 6.Eat the correct Food like Vegetables,less Meat and less starch. Now in this century you find People being 1.Beggars 2.Healthy  People don't  want to use their Brains. 3.High Rate  of Divorce. 4.Less Marriage ceremonies  5.The main entertainment  is liqour. 6.Children don't  enjoy schooling. Some try to cheat in their exams. 7.Novels are rarely read not to mention  buying them. 8.Rare visit to the Public Library. All what I have said makes ...

I have delegated  all my posts  under one theme. Where  does planning  start? It starts from your MIND Your Mind must have a vision. In simple terms on layman's language  a vision  is an idea which will take you to the steps you will  attain. 2024  is already expiring. There  are missions which you couldn't   fulfill because of many  reasons  which some of these  reasons include  yourself  although  you deny it sometimes. In order to make your planning to be successful you must be realistic.You have to build from what you have.You must compare from what you have achieved  and not achieved. How to go about non-achieved objectives. You have to ask yourself  how long  will it take to achieve  your goals. Before you sell your Vision to others,you must  satisfy yourself  that all or most of the loopholes  have been closed down. Although you don't  have all the answers ...

Today,I want to ask,and know  you better.  Let start with your  attitude. 1.What do you   do when you want "something" from your  spouse? Choose  one 1.Do you ask for money?   (2) 2.Do you ask for food?       (3) 3.Nothing.                            (1) Your  Choice  is                   [   ] 2.Which day is a "happier" for your spouse? Choose One 2.1  Monday        (2) 2.2  Tuesday        (1) 2.3   Wednesday  (0) 2.4    Thursday     (2) 2.5     Friday          (3) 2.6     Saturday     (3) 2.7     Sunday       (2) 2.8     No days      (4)   Your  choice...

There  are certain  questions in life which  guide your  path of life.You cannot  simply avoid  them because  they build your  humanity.You could see  that some of the Leaders in this Century "escaped" these questions  which were  "stashed"  about Theories which failed  before and  trying to revive the Dead Wolves. Now Read and select the  number with  a corresponding answer  if I like 2.Gathering  the  I shall write [2] and add up example again it should  look like this: 1[3] 2[2] 3[3] 4[1] 5[2] Your  score /11/  39.28% Total: 28 The Analysis  will follow Here  is the Questionnaire 1.What makes  you happy? 1.Money 2.Gatherings 3.Love  Score= 2.What makes you Angry 1.Money 2.Gatherings 3.Love   Score= 3.What do you admire  most? 1.Money  2.Gathering  4.Love 4.Which are three things  would you want to achieve before you die? 1.Mon...

Did you ask yourself  before? 1.Are you Conservative? 2.Are you Liberal? 3.Are you in the middle? The same  questions  may be viewed as  1.Are you  financial  Conservative? 2.Are you financial  liberal? 3.Are you financial  in the middle? We  can take  the same questions  to your  Religion. 1.Does your  Religion  want  you  to be  Conservative? 2.Does your Religion  want you to be Liberal? 3.Does  your religion allow  you to be in the middle? All the above  questions  will help you if you answer them honestly. What are the benefits   of these Questions? They will  shape  your Thinking and Behiour which  will lead you to better life. You shall also earn Respect. People will behave the way you behave.

It starts  from you.Be it love,fear,anxiety  all of them will be active  when  you Fear. So any enemy or opposition  will "instill" Fear because  the  mind  has the ability   to weaken the whole body. Well,our eyes  or ears   are transferring the images   to our brains.The  flow of blood   with the hormones  weakens our hearts and joints. Some of these threats are  Real some are scaring tactics.In order to make the Threat  to be Real would  depend  how much can you absorb the Threat. If you show  the Ultra Resistance  you can Overcome  the Fear. I have  passed and came over the Human Mountains.I"m talking  about a crowd which wanted to "grind me" because one lied  that  I was a Witch.Thats the  painful  side of being Black African.It was driven by my biological  parents because  I did not pay Black Tax See  also...

Hi. It depends from which generation you come from.I have categorised the generations as follows: 1925-1935.    Men: They hold  fast on the teachings of their parents and want to pass their parents  teachings to their children. Women: They were taught to be not easy to get by men.They got it from their parents. 1936-1945 Men: They partly accept their  parents teachings the technology has made themselves "better" than their parents Women The stress is on family building. If the man is working far she will  not date  any man. 1946-1956 Men The way of life has changed.They take partially care of their parents as their parents become older. Women They were taught not to forget their roots and at the same time  they had hold steadfastly to their families. 1957-1967 Men This group is extreme. It reviews the way they brought up. If they were brought in a hard way,they will "disappear' meaning not connect with their families or if they were treated well t...

Any progressing human being  must change and pass through changes.Some of these challenges are painful and some are smooth.The degree of pain is the one which will push you to any resistance.As I have said some of the pain is sailable and takes a small time and some becomes so Big in such way they take a  long time to be solved. It is not only the wealth,but  facing the reality.You must know everyone wants to survive.The  side weakness of human being is the interference. Not all the death is natural.It is caused by all the types of stress be financially, health and other "unseen  enemies" You know your past and presence. Start now to prepare for the future

There are three types of friends 1.A Friend who will tell you the Truth so that you can succeed. 2.A Friend who will tell  you  the Truth  in order to destroy you  3.A Friend who will not tell you anything. This type of friend does not care whether you succeed or now 1.What  is the True Friend? This type  of friend gives you the practical  solutions and objectives. Such a friend is not interested in your assets and your spouse. 2.A Friend who will tell you the Truth in order to destroy you. This one portrays himself/herself as the best.He/She wants that you must be isolated so that you can be send to a Mental Institution and the aim is to keep on your property and perhaps taking care of your  spouse. 3.A Friend who will not tell you anything. This one is very dangerous.He/She knows  wherever,whatever you think.You can be attacked unaware.Watch,listen to him/her carefully.Apply the same approach.

We are living in the difficult times. The World Economy is not growing. Literally People don't have money or they live from hand to  mouth at least. Unemployment  It depends where you live. Unemployment may be caused by 1.State. 2.Laziness. 3.Past ill-preparation 4.Over zealous of imaginary job 5.Too choosy Country Certain countries can limit your ability or restrict people such as 1.Foreigners 2.Segregation 3.Saturated Skills 4.Slavery salaries  Planning  1.Plan Ahead (6 years) 2.Schooling 3.Dream job

No one is born with hatred. No one is born with Love. No one is born with Revenge or Avenge. Those were habits which were copied from somewhere direct or indirect. We are all influenced by our families, friends,those who we like or don't like for one or another reason or even the countries we live in. That's why it is easy or difficult to get a job or a business. When People buy your product,it's either they like your Product because you have marketed it very well or they like your nationality  or both. It is difficult to survive in the multicultural  country.You have to get the natural person  of that Country.Usually the resources are very small. A Big Question is,can we change from our behaviour? We must start from our families so that the family friends can change.The Education system may help us. The Community Organizations should be should be allowed to contribute.The Economic conditions are exacerbating the situation.It will take one brave person to change the situa...

Are you ready to take yourself to the next level? Which levels? 1.Finance. 2.Social Interaction. 3.Job Upgrading. 4.Taking your Business to  National and International Levels. 5.Family Upgrade. Those are the Questions which you must ask yourself at this time of the year  1.Finance. How are your Finances? Are they moderate? How many Debts do you have? 2.Social Interaction. Does your Socialization drain or make money for you? 3.Job Upgrading. Have you ever think to Upgrade  your Job through Promotion or looking for the better Job? 4.Taking your Business to National and International Levels What is your Vision about taking your Business to Upper National level to International. 5.Family Upgrade Do you have enough Finance for the next unborn child?

As we grow,the Life dictates the type of problems which give us  challenges.There are 5 challenges which you cannot avoid 1.Siblings. 2.Parents. 3.Education. 4.Unemployment. 5.Retirement. 1.Siblings. Your siblings may make your life miserably indeed very hard or make your life easier.Whether your own flesh and blood or adopted. What have you already experienced? 1.Love 2.Anger 3.Happiness 4.Wealth  Poverty  2.Parents The duty of any parent is to 1.Parent 2.Feed 3.Love 3.Education Your education starts at  home then it is the duty of the school to guide children because some families are "loose"

I grew and associated myself with three Geniuses People.I benefited a lot from them.The two of these Geniuses  passed away,only one is still living, although I don't know where to allocate. The first one was Michael Sibiya.He used to get all the marks at Mshadza Secondary School.I used to congratulate him.One day he told me that he was not a Genius, actually all of us were given the same brains,eyes and mouth. The only difference is that when the teacher delivers his lessons,he exercise a high degree of concerntration,taking every word while the other learners are allowing less absorption and because he concerntrates more then we term him a Genius. Secondly,Genius People are those People who invented  aeroplanes,Engines and cars.The rest of us are copycats. The second one is Michael Mathabela who once claimed that he was a Moving English Dictionary.The third one was George Nkosi who made English to be his Mother tongue.Whenever we communicated in our language, he would reply i...

I went through my previous blogs under  Aboutyourselfblogaddress.blogspot.com. The taste of reading was not the same. What did People Read? -Practical, experienced information. -Relevant to their lives. -Global influence. -Accomodative What People did not  like? 1.Generation behaviour(Sept 09 2023)(89) 2.Interesting Question(family issues)(1/09/2023) 80+ 3.Failure(causes  of Failure)(7/08/23)(33) 4.Success(Preparation of Success)(06/08/2023)(39) 5.Which Animal/s do you like?(16/06/2023)(24) What did  People like exceptionally? 1.Why the cat is very Clever?(02/02/22) 1263) 2.Interesting People (28/01/22)(1073) 3.See how I got paid(25/01/22(1097) 4.How would you like to end up(23/02/22)(1051) 5.Happiness for others sadness for others  (22/01/22)(935) You can see which posts people liked and not liked. I conclude that perhaps Interfered too much in People's freedom because it sounded personal.Otherwise,I wrote under generally perspective.

Life is not static.It is moving.You must also move with times,otherwise  you will be swept away. What moves with Times? Who moves with Times? What makes anything  to move? How far will you go? What moves with Times? 1.Jobs: Upgrade your job. 2.Finances: Improve your Finances through Services. 3.Assets:House Extension Who moves with Times? 1.Hardworkers: Those who put more energy towards they are doing 2.Creativity:Those who have "new mind" 3.Drivers: Those who take initiatives What makes anything  to move? 1.It is the planning 2.To understand  your intention  and goals 3.To take an action How far will you go? 1.Your determination 2.Your effort 3.Your strength  4.Your stretch

There  is a difference between behaving in strangers and behaving  with strangers. Strangers are divided  into two categories: 1.The first Visitors or People who you meet you.You may know them but you never had  a serious conversation  with them. 2.The People who  you don't  know  them you have never even seen them before. Usually it may be a business or intimacy Your behaviour  will depend on your belief, culture  and understanding  his/her culture things  to say   not to say for the  first time and the  your country or his/her  country of origin.That will depend  on the flow of  your discussion. What you must know 1.The first impression lasts. 2.Your  words,what you say comes second. 3.The longer  you are with the stranger  4.Choose your point of discussions  carefully.  Don't  speak ill about other People 5.Don't  fall into a trap. 6.If you don't  ...

Whatever you do you should leave a Mark. Ask yourself. Will your name be forgotten in future? Will you be remembered in the History  dustbin? Surely,your wife,husband,child must remember  for  doing something  good or bad.Good People are always  remembered  positively.Bad Poeople are always remembered  and not much is discussed about them because  they raise tensions. What I have said the spouse and children  are remembered  at different level just like the politicians.Our commitments are  not the same in our lives Why  is it important to leave  a Mark? It is for the sake of 1.Peace 2.Unity 3.Love 4.Existence Who wil carry the mark? Your 1.Communities  2.Friends 3.Country The Results of your mark will create a Perpetual  1.Love 2.Hate  3.Revenge 4.Avenge My Advice.Do what is RIGHT 

Humans are funny creatures. They are more strategic compared to all other living beings.In your  home you stay with different  people  or at least its you and your partner. There are things  which you have to compromise.It can be your money,dignity, language  and time.When the family  pressure  is too high, the expected and unexpected  action occurs. The Big Question  is how much should you persevere? The answer is as much as you can.At the end of the day  you might be the great Loser  and ultimately  affect your health. It doesn't  end up at home,even in your business or at work.Whether you are in the Management  or not.Not to mention  when you meet clients daily with different  attitudes.You have to adjust yourself for the sake of your business.Otherwise your  profits  will dwindle. My final take  is,in this world only  those who could survive  but  the impatient ones don't...

There are Good and Bad People in your Life.Some you will meet them in fiture. There is also  the invisible group  which is pretending  to be good to you.That group is very  dangerous to you. Who are Good People to you? ●those  who are honest to you. ●they  will tell you the Truth and not backbite you. ●they will appear in any time and support  you in bad times. ●they will tell you about what you can achieve  and  not achieve. Who are Bad People? ○these people  backbite you. ○they flatter you most of the time ○they befriend   those who don't  like you. ○they encourage  to do what is wrong. "Wrangle,Kill,Revenge in the name of Peace". ○they milk your money and you are not aware. Pretending  Group  ■They act on your weaknesses like: Exarcebating your feuds underground. ■they pretentiously "worship' you. ■they want to know all your moves. ■they lead you to wasteful expenditure  and you  are not aware o...

Your Freedom  may  threaten  those who are in the bondage of inferiority  complex. I'm talking about what I experienced in my Life. Your genuine contribution towards anything  may be turned against you. 1.Family Level These People know you,your growth, thinking including  the food you like. So you are placed at certain  level. Whatever you do beyond the expected level is regarded as Polluted Mind which  must be "cleaned". 2.Job Levels Your contribution might be accepted  up to a certain level.There are two  fears: 2.1You are too forward. 2.2 You are viewed  as a Person who want "Cheap Popularity" 2.3 We don't want you to leave with your own  terms.We shall tell you when to leave. 3.Political Powerful words are stronger than the  modern Weapons. 4.How to save yourself. 4.1 Study, understand your company. 4.2 Know  People. 4.3 Give  praise where is due. 4.4 Find People who understand  you. If they are not avai...

I have 3 friends who  live different  lives. I shall use pseudonyms.Tim is older than me.He usually  try to appease us  by buying expensive  gifts  yearly. In turn we buy cheaper gifts,cheaper  drinks. We tried to visit his apartment.He was uncomfortable  about that,but he gave in. When we were into his apartment,he ushered  us to the lawn.Well,we accepted that.We asked him about  his family. He never  told us about his family. We asked  about his salary.He told us that he  was a Painter.We discovered that he painted 2 houses in 6 months  yet he behaved as a person who  could  afford everything. The other two friends are professional. Martin ( pseudonyms) is Teacher.He is a an English Teacher. The third  one Mary.She told us that she worked in one of his corporate office.She also spends   lot of money in expensive  Cosmetics. 

No one rates himself/herself  as a failure. It is worse when you are rated a failure by other People. What makes  a Success? It starts  from your  mind or eyes. Any success needs: Determination,Push or Force,Cautiosness,Timeously,Focus and Discipline. All what I have said needs Preparation  and n look  for the possible path which may succeed or disturb.You can plan or be faultered unaware. But that does not mean that we must not plan,dream our future either for  finance or self development  to ourselves  and families. On taking this Adventure we must not fail to think otherwise you will not get anywhere.Opinions,suggestions may have  positive  or negative  results hopefully  that the negative unintended  results will not damp or dump us. You th People  around you either from your family or friends they also know you.Keep the early moves to yourself.

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Did you think of the following: Just imagine your President when he/she is making love.Take a look of his/her gestures. Just imagine a celebrity.What do you think when is on bed. Just  imagine a talkative woman or a man on bed. Just imagine a  soft speaking person, how soft is on bed. Just imagine a Pilot.How careful is he/she on bed. You may learn or unlearn from the above  actions. Your imagination can be strong or weak or get you astray.

So,far I had a a great support  of my blogs.You can visit https://take.app/nofisa1 and see the work which I'm doing.It is up to you whether  you  would like to contribute a donation or not. Over 40,000 People did read this blog.I usually find interesting the way we ourselves,relatives collegues at work neighbours think about  what is positive for us  and others. There  are People  who don't  have peace.How is that Person  is going to give  peace  if he/she does not know what Peace is. Peace means sacrifice  not  to hurt other People,think positive about ourselves and know  your limits.Other People say the foundation of Peace  is Respect. Unfortunately,if the leadership does not have such qualities  then we shall experience more feuds.

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